{"id":29375,"date":"2017-04-14T08:06:00","date_gmt":"2017-04-14T06:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/04\/14\/kako-ohraniti-pestro-spolno-zivljenje-po-prihodu-otroka\/"},"modified":"2017-04-26T11:23:12","modified_gmt":"2017-04-26T09:23:12","slug":"kako-ohraniti-pestro-spolno-zivljenje-po-prihodu-otroka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-ohraniti-pestro-spolno-zivljenje-po-prihodu-otroka\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako ohraniti pestro spolno \u017eivljenje po prihodu otroka?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"foto:Profimedia<\/p>\n

Rojstvo otroka za ve\u010dino parov predstavlja kronanje njihove ljubezni in skupnega \u017eivljenja, hkrati pa prvi otrok prinese mnogo sprememb, na katere se \u010dlovek v naprej ne more pripraviti. Poleg vsakdanjika, ki postane vse drugo kot rutina, se spremenijo stvari tudi na ljubezenskem podro\u010dju. S tem niso mi\u0161ljeni prvi tedni po porodu, ko \u00bbnovope\u010dena\u00ab mati iz telesnih razlogov ni zmo\u017ena oziroma ji je odsvetovana spolnost, temve\u010d \u010das po tem, ko mlada star\u0161a po\u010dasi spet zapadeta v rutino vsakdana. Glavna dejavnika, ki onemogo\u010data spro\u0161\u010deno in strastno izra\u017eanje spolnosti sta pomanjkanje \u010dasa in utrujenost. Pri slednjem ponavadi igra partnerka ve\u010djo vlogo, saj je ona cel dan z otrokom in posledi\u010dno konec dneva tako utrujena, da se le \u0161e \u017eeli zaspati poleg otroka. Vendar z malo pomo\u010di, nekaj volje, vztrajnosti in iznajdljivosti boste lahko u\u017eivali v novo rojenih ob\u010dutkih o\u010detovstva ter prerojenem spolnem \u017eivljenju.<\/p>\n

\u010ce hodite v slu\u017ebo \u2026<\/h2>\n

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\u010ce se kot ve\u010dina vsako jutro odpravljate od doma v slu\u017ebo, to pomeni, da je va\u0161a partnerka ve\u010dji del dneva sama z otrokom. Ko se vrnete domov, je ona enako utrujena kot vi, morda \u0161e bolj, kar pomeni, da je va\u0161a glavna naloga, da jo razbremenite. Omogo\u010dite ji \u010das za po\u010ditek, sprostitev, dajte ji \u010das zase in rade volje ga bo nato zve\u010der pre\u017eivela skupaj z vami. Spo\u010dita in urejena pa bo hkrati v va\u0161ih o\u010deh iz\u017earevala privla\u010dnost, zaradi katere ste se pred leti zaljubili vanjo. Ker pa otrok tudi \u010dez dan potrebuje po\u010ditek, se lahko med vikendi takrat vidva posvetita drug drugemu, medtem ko mal\u010dek spi. Na ta na\u010din boste sicer imeli ob\u010dutek, da se morate podrejati otrokovemu ritmu, vendar druga\u010de res ne bo \u0161lo.<\/p>\n

\u010ce delate od doma \u2026<\/h2>\n

V kolikor delate do doma, se popoldanski del dneva ne razlikuje dosti od \u017ee zgoraj opisanega, vendar ste pa dopoldan partnerki ves \u010das na razpolago, da ji prisko\u010dite na pomo\u010d. S tem \u017ee imate malo prednosti, saj bo partnerka konec dneva malo bolj spo\u010dita in se bo raje posvetila tudi va\u0161im potrebam. Ker pa, kot \u017ee re\u010deno, otrok potrebuje po\u010ditek ve\u010dkrat na dan, lahko njegov dopoldanski oziroma opoldanski spanec izkoristita za medsebojno razvajanje. V tem primeru ni treba \u010dakati na ve\u010der, ker saj veste, kaj pravijo: rana ura, zlata ura.<\/p>\n

\u010ce ste brezposelni \u2026<\/h2>\n

V tem primeru pa imate dovolj \u010dasa, da se s partnerko uskladita pri skrbi za otroka. Skupna skrb za otroka bo pomenila ve\u010d skupaj pre\u017eivetih intimnih trenutkov. Sicer boste vi na ta na\u010din ve\u010d \u010dasa skrbeli za otroka kot bi, \u010de bi bili v slu\u017ebi, vendar bo va\u0161a pomo\u010d definitivno le pozitivno vplivala na va\u0161e razmerje iz vseh vidikov. Svoji partnerki boste \u0161e dodatno pokazali, da ste odgovoren in skrben o\u010de, ki postavlja lastne potrebe za potrebe otroka, in hkrati pokazali, kako zelo jo cenite. \u010casa za iz\u017eivljanje spolnosti boste na ta na\u010din imeli dovolj.<\/p>\n

Prosite za pomo\u010d<\/h2>\n

Seveda se pa lahko zgodi, da boste imeli s svojim otrokom toliko dela, da bosta kljub zdru\u017eenim mo\u010dem na koncu dneva oba samo \u0161e padla v posteljo, medtem ko se je \u017eelja po seksu \u017ee zdavnaj poslovila iz va\u0161e spalnice. Ker je mlade mamice ve\u010dinoma sram priznati, da potrebujejo pomo\u010d, ker bi s tem na nek na\u010din povedale, da ne zmorejo biti mati, gospodinja in ljubimka hkrati, bodite vi tiste, ki bo predlagal in prosil za pomo\u010d. Prosite svoje ali njene star\u0161e, brata, sestro, svaka ali svakinjo, da vsaj za en popoldan ali ve\u010der v mesecu popazijo na va\u0161ega otroka, da se lahko vidva posvetita samo drug drugemu. Verjemite, na ta na\u010din boste odpravili marsikatero napetost med vama in posredno pomagali celotni dru\u017einici.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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