{"id":360484,"date":"2018-02-13T12:50:22","date_gmt":"2018-02-13T11:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=360484"},"modified":"2018-02-13T12:56:05","modified_gmt":"2018-02-13T11:56:05","slug":"od-12-leta-sem-seks-odvisnica-zacelo-se-je-s-porno-filmi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/od-12-leta-sem-seks-odvisnica-zacelo-se-je-s-porno-filmi\/","title":{"rendered":"“Od 12. leta sem seks odvisnica … Za\u010delo se je s porno filmi”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Erica Garci (35) je bila zasvojena s pornografijo \u017ee ko je imela 12 let in od takrat naprej je organizirala seks zabave, na katerih se je strastem predajala z razli\u010dnimi mo\u0161kimi – v\u010dasih tudi \u0161tirikrat na teden.<\/p>\n

O svojih izku\u0161njah in zasvojenosti je napisala knjigo, pri odpravi zasvojenosti pa ji je pomagal zdaj\u0161nji mo\u017e. V knjigi “Getting off” opisuje, kako je od deklice, vzgojene v strogem katoli\u0161kem duhu, postala promiskuitetna najstnica, odvisna od seksa in pornografije.<\/p>\n

“Po dolgih letih seksa z razli\u010dnimi mo\u0161kimi sem \u010dutila me\u0161anico sramu in spolnega navdu\u0161enja. <\/span>Moji na\u010dini, kako bi pri\u0161la do seksa, so postali \u0161e bolj mra\u010dni in intenzivni, ter za\u010deli uni\u010devati skoraj vse vidike mojega \u017eivljenja,” pove v knjigi.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Njene spolne te\u017eave so se za\u010dele, ko se je posku\u0161ala vklopiti v srednjo \u0161olo. V \u0161oli so se ji posmehovali, ker je morala zaradi skolioze nositi steznik za hrbtenico, zato je uteho na\u0161la v gledanju ‘soft porn’ filmov. Ko je pri\u0161la v najstni\u0161ka leta, je tehnologija napredovala, zato je preko spleta lahko pornografijo gledala kdarkoli si je to za\u017eelela. Pravi, da se \u0161e vedno dobro spomni pornografskega posnetka Pamele Anderson in Tommyja Leeja, ki je bil objavljen leta 1997. Takrat je imela 15 let.
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<\/span>“Z ra\u010dunalnikom sem se skrila v omaro, dodatno pa me je vznemirilo dejstvo, da bi me lahko kdo zasa\u010dil,” pravi.<\/p>\n

Nedol\u017enost je izgubila, ko je imela 17 let in od takrat naprej je imela pogoste spolne odnose.<\/p>\n

“\u010ce mi je bilo nelagodo z osebo, s katero sem seksala, sem vklopila kak\u0161no pornografijo, ki mi je odvrnila pozornost. <\/span>To je bilo olaj\u0161anje, ker je to nekako postavilo nek zid med nama. Med seksom nisva mogla razviti nobenih \u010dustev in biti intimna na tej ravni,” pravi. Po kon\u010danem faksu je za\u010dela z vse bolj grobim seksom. \u017divela je v New Yorku, Londonu in na Havajih. Seksala je povsod in brez za\u0161\u010dite. Vzljubila je ‘hrad core’, \u0161e posebej pa je u\u017eivala v igricah, kjer mo\u0161ki prevladuje nad \u017eensko in jo poni\u017euje.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

“Po tem sem se po\u010dutila prazno in zlomljeno, a hkrati odli\u010dno, ker sem tudi jaz izkoristila mo\u0161ke, tako kot so oni mene,” je priznala. Ko je bila stara 30 let, je spoznala, da zaradi svoje obsesije ne more zgraditi normalnega odnosa z nobenim mo\u0161kim. Na poti na Bali je spoznala svojega zdaj\u0161njega mo\u017ea, ki jo je povsem spremenil. Na za\u010detku sta skupaj gledala pornografijo, on pa jo je prosil, naj mu razlo\u017ei, zakaj je s tem tako zelo obsedena.<\/p>\n

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“Pri\u010d v \u017eivljenju sem za\u010dutila neko varnost. Po tem se mu razkrila, kdo sem,” je povedala. V Los Angelesu je od\u0161la na zdravljenje, ki pa ji ni kaj dosti pomagalo. \u0160ele s pomo\u010djo mo\u017ea, joge in psihoterapije ji je uspelo, da celih \u0161est mesecev ni gledala porno filmov. Sedaj to po\u010dne samo \u0161e ob\u010dasno.<\/p>\n

“Sedaj vem, da nisem edina, ki to gledam, in v\u010dasih je to povsem vredu. \u017delela sem se samo znebiti tistega groznega sramu – in uspela sem,” je za The Sun povedala Erica.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Porno filme je za\u010dela gledati, ko je imela 12 let, in z leti je vse bolj u\u017eivala v ‘hard-core’ seksu. Vse se je spremenilo, ko je po 20 letih sre\u010dala zdaj\u0161njega mo\u017ea.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":360566,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[4944,2095,6262],"source":[4511],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n"Od 12. leta sem seks odvisnica ... 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