{"id":385450,"date":"2019-01-04T08:06:00","date_gmt":"2019-01-04T07:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2019\/01\/04\/ali-v-zvezi-vedno-dajete-vec-kot-prejemate-384\/"},"modified":"2019-01-04T08:06:00","modified_gmt":"2019-01-04T07:06:00","slug":"ali-v-zvezi-vedno-dajete-vec-kot-prejemate-384","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/ali-v-zvezi-vedno-dajete-vec-kot-prejemate-384\/","title":{"rendered":"Ali v zvezi vedno dajete ve\u010d, kot prejemate?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/profimedia-0092623773-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/profimedia-0092623773-660x320.jpg 660w,https:\/\/moski.hudo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/profimedia-0092623773-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto:Profimedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Ali v zvezi ve\u010d dajete, kot prejemate?<\/h2>\n<p>Preden partnerja obto\u017eite, da je premalo ljube\u010d, je nujno, da sami pri sebi odgovorite na nekatera vpra\u0161anja in razre\u0161ite nekatere dileme. Najprej se osredoto\u010dite na to, kako se vi sami trenutno po\u010dutite, \u010de je va\u0161e \u017eivljenje tak\u0161no, kot si \u017eelite, ali morda v zvezo projicirate nezadovoljstvo iz kak\u0161nega drugega podro\u010dja v \u017eivljenju. Se \u010dutite ljubljeno, \u010de va\u0161ega partnerja ni v bli\u017eini? \u010ce ne, \u010demu mislite, da je temu tako? Se sami sprejemate? Se zavedate svojih kvalitet, prednosti? Je va\u0161a ljubezen odvisna od partnerjeve ljubezni? Po\u010dnete veliko stvari zgolj zaradi partnerja, ki jih sicer nikoli ne bi po\u010deli? Po\u010dnete to zgolj zato, ker se bojite, da boste izgubili partnerjevo ljubezen, \u010de tega ne boste po\u010deli? Kak\u0161na pa so va\u0161a pri\u010dakovanja? Pri\u010dakujete kdaj tudi kak\u0161no povra\u010dilo? Ali kdaj to tudi poveste?<\/p>\n<h2>Kje je meja kompromisov?<\/h2>\n<p>V zvezi naj bi sklepali kompromise. Pari, ki so v zvezi \u017ee dlje \u010dasa, za\u010denjajo opa\u017eati v zvezi nekatere spremembe. Ne le pri partnerju. Prepiri postajajo\u00a0 silovitej\u0161i in tudi bolj iskreni. Predvsem pa bolj naporni. \u010ce partnerja ne znata sklepati dobrih kompromisov, se zdi, da nih\u010de ne dobi tega, kar \u017eeli, saj se v nedogled sklepajo kompromisi, s katerimi se krpajo luknje v komunikaciji in sprejemanju en drugega. V\u010dasih so ravno ponesre\u010deni kompromisi tisti, zaradi katerih za\u010dne marsikdo dvomiti v prisotnost ljubezni in celo v samo zvezo. Kljub temu, da nas kompromisi ne zadovoljijo, ve\u010dkrat celo obratno, na njih vztrajamo, saj \u017eelimo ohraniti ljubezen. Zanjo se v\u010dasih \u017ertvujemo do \u010disto nerazumnih meja, saj naj bi sklepanje kompromisov pa\u010d pomenilo, da pozabimo nase in delamo na zvezi. To je seveda povsem nesmiselno. \u010ce pozabimo nase, potem ta zveza ni vredna niti enega kompromisa. Zveza ni motor, motor v zvezi sta partnerja. Odpovedovanje zavoljo ljubezni vodi v zamere in negativna \u010dustva. Dolgoro\u010dno podrejanje ne koristi nikomur. \u010ce nimamo ve\u010d sebe, nimamo ve\u010d ni\u010desar, kar bi lahko dali. Na\u0161 prispevek k rasti zveze je torej bolj pi\u0161kav.<\/p>\n<h2>Nekaj smernic, kako lahko ugotovite, da sklepate preve\u010d slabih kompromisov<\/h2>\n<p>Se je koli\u010dina skupaj pre\u017eivetega \u010dasa drasti\u010dno zmanj\u0161ala, kljub temu, da ste se borili za to, da bi ga bilo ve\u010d? Kaj mislite, da bi se zgodilo, \u010de bi po\u010deli to, kar \u017eelite in bi partner po\u010del to kar si \u017eeli? Se bojite, da bi z zahtevanjem ve\u010dje avtonomije tvegali zvezo? Se vam zdi, da sta s partnerjem dve povsem lo\u010deni osebi, ki sta se odlo\u010dili, da ostaneta skupaj ali \u010dutite do partnerja predvsem obvezo? Se vam zdi, da je pravi izkaz ljubezni \u017ertvovanje? \u010ce ste pritrdilno odgovorili vsaj na dve vpra\u0161anji, bi bil morda \u010das, da se pogovorite s partnerjem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010ce se ti zdi, da v zvezi vedno potegnete kraj\u0161i konec, je \u010das, da se s partnerico pogovorite.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[1617,1400,2212],"source":[1518,1530,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Ali v zvezi vedno dajete ve\u010d, kot prejemate? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/ali-v-zvezi-vedno-dajete-vec-kot-prejemate-384\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Ali v zvezi vedno dajete ve\u010d, kot prejemate? 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