{"id":414637,"date":"2020-01-24T06:00:36","date_gmt":"2020-01-24T05:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=414637"},"modified":"2020-01-24T06:00:36","modified_gmt":"2020-01-24T05:00:36","slug":"kako-lahko-seks-izda-da-te-vara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kako-lahko-seks-izda-da-te-vara\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako lahko seks izda, da te vara?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><figcaption>Foto: Profimedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Ko v vezi nastopi varanje, se stvari spremenijo. Ni nam treba biti detektiv, da opazimo dolo\u010dene spremembe v razmerju, kadar pride do vpra\u0161anja tretje osebe. Kateri pa so tisti znaki, ki v postelji ve\u010d kot nazorno ka\u017eejo na varanje in neiskrenost, si lahko preberete v nadaljevanju.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Odsotnost med seksom<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Veliko parov \u010dez \u010das lahko pride do to\u010dke, kjer spolni odnosi zdrsnejo v ozadje veze, posebej \u010de jih nenehno ne o\u017eivljajo s strastjo, ljubeznijo, domi\u0161ljijo in po\u017eelenjem. Tretja oseba par vsega tega oropa, saj eden izmed njiju zdaj vse to do\u017eivlja z neko drugo osebo izven doma\u010de postelje. Razen v primeru utrujenosti, zaskrbljenosti in obremenjenosti, so izmikanja dotikom ljubljene osebe, odsotne o\u010di in misli med samim seksom zelo slab indic.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Ko mo\u0161ki ignorira seksi presene\u010denja<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u010ce je bil prej va\u0161 partner nad vsako novostjo na va\u0161em telesu navdu\u0161en in jo zdaj le ravnodu\u0161no pozdravi, ali \u0161e huje &#8211; sploh ne opazi, je to definitivno dobra osnova za neprijetne in dvomljive ob\u010dutke. Seveda si vsaka \u017eenska z veseljem preuredi intimno frizurico, \u010de ve, da temu sledi tiso\u010d in en strasten kompliment njenega partnerja. Ker se vsaka od nas \u017eeli po\u010dutiti za\u017eeleno in seksi, tudi nakupi novega zapeljivega spodnjega perila niso redka stvar. Kadar partner vsega tega niti ne o\u0161vrkne z o\u010desom in na vsa ta sladka mala presene\u010denja postane imun, nekaj zagotovo ni v redu.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Njegov grmi\u010dek<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Ogromno mo\u0161kih \u0161e danes za svoje sramne dlake trdi, da jih imajo najraje kar v naravnem stanju, \u010de\u0161 da &#8216;saj niso babnice&#8217;. Velika ve\u010dina pa bi razmislila tudi o spremembi, \u010de bi si tega od njih za\u017eelela strastna \u017eenska. Zakaj? Ker vedo, \u010demu ta sprememba slu\u017ei. Tako mo\u0161ki kot tudi \u017eenske, ki jih na to napeljejo, se zavedajo, da bo sprememba intimnega grmi\u010dka vro\u010de nagrajena. Vse lepo in prav. Vendar problem nastane takrat, ko mo\u0161ki svoj spremenjeni grmi\u010dek razgali pred \u017eensko, katera si tega leta in leta ni nikoli za\u017eelela. Seveda izgovor, da je &#8216;gladko presene\u010denje&#8217; namenjeno ravno njej, ostaja vedno na razpolago. \u010ce mu bo \u017eenska vedno znova nasedla, pa je \u017ee drugo vpra\u0161anje.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Izgovor za izgovorom<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Varanje pri paru seveda lahko povzro\u010di vedno manj spolnih odnosov med njima. Ko se ti spremenijo v le bled spomin, je zelo primeren \u010das za akcijo po poizvedovanju, kaj se pravzaprav dogaja. Razlogov za opusto\u0161eno spolno \u017eivljenje je lahko seveda veliko, zato bi bilo nesmiselno delati nepremi\u0161ljene zaklju\u010dke. Sumljivo lahko postane recimo \u0161ele takrat, ko vsak lep, spro\u0161\u010den, neobremenjen vikend, kadar imata hi\u0161o in dneve \u010disto zase, vedno znova dobite serviranih milijon izgovorov namesto strastnega seksa, ki bi nadoknadil vse izgubljeno.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Kondomi<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Kaj bi se vam porodilo v glavi, \u010de s partnerjem pri spolnih odnosih kot kontracepcijo ne bi uporabljali kondomov, na\u0161li pa bi jih v \u017eepu njegove jakne ali v njegovi denarnici? Brez dvoma bi se vam situacija zdela nadvse \u010dudna in sumljiva. Vedno obstaja mo\u017enost, da jih je dobil kot darilo od prijatelja, ali le mimogrede na ulici kot reklamo, lahko pa za vsem ti\u010di nekaj ve\u010d. Nekaj v obliki tretje osebe.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Seveda stvari niso vedno tak\u0161ne, kot se zdijo, in pravega recepta odkrivanja tistega, kar ho\u010de ostati zakrito, ni. Najbolj\u0161i na\u010din ostaja odprta komunikacija s partnerjem ter odkrit pogovor o tem, kaj se dogaja.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010ceprav ima \u010dlovek sposobnost laganja in pretvarjanja, obstajajo preprosti na\u010dini, kako v vezi prepoznati neresnico in prikrivanje.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":414638,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[2927,15612,1376],"source":[1364,1387,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Kako lahko seks izda, da te vara? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kako-lahko-seks-izda-da-te-vara\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kako lahko seks izda, da te vara? 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