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Otroci pretirano skrbnih star\u0161ev imajo pogosto te\u017eave v \u0161oli<\/h2>\n

U\u010ditelji, vzgojitelji, profesorji in drugi strokovnjaki \u017ee leta opazujejo ta trend “star\u0161ev kosilnic” in svarijo pred posledicami. Otroci pretirano skrbnih star\u0161ev imajo sode\u010d po raziskavah velike te\u017eave s tem, kako svoje vzgibe in \u010dustva kontrolirati – in to je sposobnost, ki je ekstremno pomembna, da se lahko znajdemo v socialnih odnosih. Kar se za\u010dne na otro\u0161kem igri\u0161\u010du, se nadaljuje v \u010dasu \u0161ole. In tam pride otrok do preizkusa koliko prenese:<\/p>\n

“Otroci, ki svojih \u010dustev in svojega obna\u0161anja ne morejo u\u010dinkovito nadzorovati, bodo najverjetneje motili pouk, bodo imeli ve\u010d te\u017eav z iskanjem novih prijateljev in pogosteje te\u017eave v \u0161oli,” citira \u010dasopis Focus.de Nicole Perry z univerze v Minnesoti Twin Cities o rezultatih dolgoletne raziskave, v kateri so preu\u010devali vpliv preve\u010d skrbnega stila vzgoje.<\/p>\n

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So “star\u0161i kosilnice” \u0161e huj\u0161i kot “helikopterski” star\u0161i “? (1. del)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Uspe\u0161ni otroci za vsako ceno<\/h2>\n

Strokovnjaki vidijo tak stil vzgoje, kot ga izvajajo “star\u0161i kosilnice” kot nevaren za otroke. Vse pogosteje je namre\u010d opaziti, da otroci ne dokon\u010dajo nalog ali testov, da razmetavajo okrog sebe, se odzivajo jezno in kljubovalno, ko naletijo na izziv. Strah pred neuspehom je tako velik, da si nekateri otroci sploh ne upajo lotiti se naloge. “\u010ce se otroci niso nikoli nau\u010dili, da morajo sprejeti tudi razo\u010daranja in neuspehe, bodo postali \u0161ibke osebnosti,” je za \u010dasopis focus.de povedal socialno-izobra\u017eevalni zdravstveni raziskovalec\u00a0Klaus Hurrelmann. Noben otrok ne more postati sposoben za samostojno \u017eivljenje, \u010de se mu ni nikoli dovolilo, da bi sam sprejel kak\u0161no tveganje. Pomembno je namre\u010d, da se preko izku\u0161enj nau\u010dijo, da ni noben neuspeh dokon\u010den in se ga ne da premagati.<\/p>\n

Toda otroci “star\u0161ev kosilnic” le redko naletijo na oviro. Navajeni so, da imajo pred sabo za\u010drtano pot, ki ji sledijo. Njihovi star\u0161i jih namre\u010d \u017eelijo – verjetno iz narobe razumljene ljubezni – pred negativnimi izku\u0161njami za\u0161\u010dititi. Toda isto\u010dasno imajo ti star\u0161i zelo visoka pri\u010dakovanja od svojih otrok. Tudi zato tako mo\u010dno posegajo v njihovo \u017eivljenje, ker \u017eelijo, da bi bili njihovi otroci uspe\u0161ni, tako v socialnem kot akademskem \u017eivljenju.<\/p>\n

3. DEL (zadnji) prispevka o \u201cstar\u0161ih kosilnicah\u201d, o tem, kak\u0161no \u0161kodo delajo svojim otrokom, in kako to prenehati po\u010deti, bomo objavili JUTRI!<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p>\n

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V\u010deraj smo objavili 1. DEL prispevka o novi generaciji star\u0161ev, ki jih strokovnjaki imenujejo “star\u0161i kosilnice”. To so star\u0161i, ki svojim otrokom ostranjujejo vse potencialne prepreke na njihovi poti, da bi jim tako olaj\u0161ali \u017eivljenje, toda v resnici jim s tem delajo veliko \u0161kodo …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":415022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2867,1408,15637],"source":[1410,1335,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n“Star\u0161i kosilnice”: Strokovnjaki svarijo, da lahko svojemu otroku delate veliko \u0161kodo! 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