{"id":415025,"date":"2020-01-29T08:55:59","date_gmt":"2020-01-29T07:55:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2020\/01\/29\/so-starsi-kosilnice-se-hujsi-kot-helikopterski-starsi-1-del\/"},"modified":"2020-01-29T08:55:59","modified_gmt":"2020-01-29T07:55:59","slug":"so-starsi-kosilnice-se-hujsi-kot-helikopterski-starsi-1-del","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/zdrav-duh-telo\/so-starsi-kosilnice-se-hujsi-kot-helikopterski-starsi-1-del\/","title":{"rendered":"So “star\u0161i kosilnice” \u0161e huj\u0161i kot “helikopterski” star\u0161i “? (1. del)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Otro\u0161ko igri\u0161\u010de. Dva otroka se \u017eelita igrati z isto lopatko. Nenadoma je sli\u0161ati glasno vpitje. \u017denska glasno vpijo\u010d te\u010de proti otrokoma, pograbi lopatko iz rok enega otroka in jo ponudi drugemu otroku. “Mora\u0161 deliti!,” okrega svojega otroka. Medtem ko njen sin za\u010dne jokati, je drugi otrok zmeden. Negotovo poprime za lopatko. Ne ve, kako bi se obna\u0161al.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Prizori, kot je opisan zgoraj, se dogajajo vsak dan, na vseh mogo\u010dih otro\u0161kih igri\u0161\u010dih po svetu. Zakaj mama ni pustila, da bi otroka sama med sabo re\u0161ila konflikt? Kaj bi se v najslab\u0161em primeru zgodilo med njima? Vse pogosteje star\u0161i posegajo v igro in druga socialna sre\u010danja svojih otrok, ne da bi imeli za to kak\u0161en poseben razlog, pi\u0161e \u010dasopis Focus.de. Posegajo, da bi odstranili potencialne ovire in te\u017eave, preden bi se njihov otrok lahko ob njih spotaknil. To novo generacijo otrok strokovnjaki imenujejo “star\u0161i kosilnice” in spadajo v dru\u017eino “helikopterskih star\u0161ev”. Ta slednji, \u017ee dobro poznani izraz, opisuje star\u0161e, ki so pretirano skrbni in za\u0161\u010ditni\u0161ki do svojih otrok, podobno kot helikopter, ves \u010das lebdijo nad svojim podmladkom, da bi ga za\u0161\u010ditili pred potencialnimi nevarnostmi.<\/p>\n

“Star\u0161i kosilnice” svojim otrokom odstranjujejo ovire na poti<\/h2>\n

Izraz “star\u0161i kosilnice” je precej nov. Pojavil se je, ko je lani avgusta nek u\u010ditelj, ki je \u017eelel ostati anonimen, na spletni strani wearetheacher.com opisal svoje izku\u0161nje s star\u0161i in \u0161olarji. Pojem “star\u0161i kosilnice” je opisal takole:<\/p>\n

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“Star\u0161i kosilnice naredijo vse, kar je potrebno, da bi svoje otroke za\u0161\u010ditili pred te\u017eavami, neuspehi in spori. Namesto da bi svoje otroke pripravili na najrazli\u010dnej\u0161e izzive, skozi katere bodo \u0161li v \u017eivljenju, jim te\u017eave odstranjujejo, da jih njihovi otroci sploh ne bi ob\u010dutili.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n

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Vse to se sicer sli\u0161i ne\u0161kodljivo, toda u\u010ditelj nadaljuje pojasnjevati:<\/p>\n

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“S tem ko vzgajamo otroke, ki so do\u017eiveli le redke te\u017eave in prepreke, v resnici ne ustvarjamo sre\u010dnej\u0161e generacije otrok. Ustvarjamo generacijo, ki nima pojma, kaj naj naredi, ko naleti na te\u017eave. Generacijo, ki \u017ee ob misli na neuspeh zagrabi panika, ali pa popolnoma otrpne. Generacijo, za katero je neuspeh tako bole\u010d, da pose\u017ee po premostitvenih mehanizmih kot so odvisnost, prevalitev krivde, ponotranjenje.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Tudi neka profesorica z ameri\u0161ke univerze v Pittsburghu v svojem blogu opisuje izku\u0161nje s “star\u0161i kosilnicami” in to, kako tak stil vzgoje vpliva na otroke:<\/p>\n

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  • Ne razvijejo nobene lastne motivacije in nimajo nobenega lastnega zagona, kajti vedo le, kako slediti poti, ki so jim jo pripravili njihovi “star\u0161i kosilnice”<\/li>\n
  • Niso sposobni sprejemati ne manj\u0161ih ne ve\u010djih odlo\u010ditev, ne da bi se pri tem zana\u0161ali na pomo\u010d drugih<\/li>\n
  • Ves \u010das jim je posredovano sporo\u010dilo, da niso dovolj dobri, da bi sami re\u0161evali svoje probleme<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n

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    2. DEL prispevka o “star\u0161ih kosilnicah”, o tem, kak\u0161no \u0161kodo delajo svojim otrokom, in kako to prenehati po\u010deti, bomo objavili JUTRI!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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