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Nekaterim nasvetom se je bolje izogniti (Foto: Profimedia)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Ne glede na to, da so nekateri nasveti in prijateljske besede dobronamerni, pa vseeno v\u010dasih izzovejo dokaj neprijetne ob\u010dutke pri osebi, kateri jih izre\u010dete. Ne le, da nasvet ni v\u017egal, temve\u010d se prijateljici naje\u017eijo dlake na hrbtu vsaki\u010d, kadar ga sli\u0161i. Raje ji povejte, da je krasna oseba, da ji ni\u010d ne manjka in naj u\u017eiva \u017eivljenje. \u010cesa se izogibati? Psihologinja dr. Karin Anderson z Concordia univerze v \u010cikagu navaja nekaj primerov.<\/p>\n

1. ”Mogo\u010de se ne trudi\u0161 dovolj mo\u010dno”<\/h2>\n

Samska prijateljica bi iz tega lahko razumela, da jo obsojate. Bolje je, da jo opogumljate, naj se poda v nova razmerja, ki bodo prijetna, neprisiljena in spontana. V nova poznanstva naj se zapleta takrat, ko \u017eeli in tako, kot njej najbolj odgovarja. \u010ce se sploh ne trudi in ji njen samski stan odgovarja, pa je nih\u010de nima pravice obsojati.<\/p>\n

2. ”Pojdi v lov!”<\/h2>\n

To lahko namiguje na podpomen, da se samska oseba ne trudi dovolj mo\u010dno, da bi nekoga spoznala. Torej da ne izkori\u0161\u010da interneta in slepih zmenkov v polnem pomenu besede in da ne \u017eivi svojega \u017eivljenja tako, kot bi morala. Tak\u0161nih nasvetov se izogibajte. \u010cetudi je videti, da nima interesa za novo poznanstvo, vedite, da se samski ljudje ne skrivajo v svojih stanovanjih, temve\u010d hodijo v slu\u017ebo, na ve\u010derje in spoznavajo nove ljudi. Torej s samskostjo ‘lov’ pride \u017ee samoumevno.<\/p>\n

3. ”Uporabi malo ve\u010d li\u010dil”<\/h2>\n

Ta izjava je direkten napad na identiteto osebe. \u017denska se predstavlja s tem, kar je po njenem mnenju smiselno. Ne glede na njen stil in izgled, vsaka \u017eenska ima pravico biti to, kar je. Nekje obstaja mo\u0161ki, ki mu bo njen stil privla\u010den. \u010ce se predstavlja kot nekaj, kar kontrira njeni pravi osebnosti, pa bo to tudi on opazil. Omenimo le \u0161e to, da obstaja razlika med neuporabi li\u010dil ter higienskim zanemarjanjem.<\/p>\n

4. ”Preve\u010d si izbir\u010dna”<\/h2>\n

Vsaka \u017eenska ima dolo\u010dene standarde, pod katere si ne bo dovolila iti, ko pride do izbire partnerja. S tak\u0161nim stavkom ji sporo\u010date, da je njen \u010das izbiranja in standardov minil ter naj bo zadovoljna z vsakim primerkom, ki pride mimo in ji izka\u017ee zanimanje. Seveda ji lahko svetujete, naj tu in tam sprejme kako povabilo na zmenek, vsekakor pa naj bo pri izbiri previdna, saj bi v nasprotnem primeru kon\u010dala v \u0161e eni nesre\u010dni vezi. Zadovolji naj se z osebo, ki ji bo privla\u010dna tako glede karakterja, videza in razmi\u0161ljanja, kot tudi seksualno.<\/p>\n

5. ”Malce se spremeni”<\/h2>\n

Je preve\u010d \u010dvekava. Postavlja preve\u010d vpra\u0161anj. Mo\u0161ke prestra\u0161i s svojo direktnostjo. Za vsako stvar mora izraziti svoje mnenje. Preve\u010d je zaposlena. To so njene osebne lastnosti, ki jo delajo unikatno. Da ji svetujete, naj spreminja svojo identiteto zavoljo ugajanja mo\u0161kim, je popolnoma napa\u010dno po\u010detje. Predlog spremembe karakterja ni najbolj\u0161i nasvet, saj to ne bo ustvarilo pristne povezanosti med njo in mo\u0161kim, kar lahko rezultira v katastrofalni vezi in \u0161e bolj katastrofalnem zakonu. Ljudje zelo te\u017eko dlje \u010dasa prekrivamo svoj resni\u010dni karakter. Tudi partner nima pravice zahtevati, da se drugi spremeni, saj to velikokrat oddaja znak njegovega lastnega pomanjkanja samozavesti. Torej \u010de je \u017eenska poslovno nadvse uspe\u0161na, nima nobenega razloga, da se tega sramuje le zato, da bi ugodila mo\u0161kemu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u010ceravno so nekateri nasveti samski prijateljici povsem dobronamerni, znajo pri njej izzvati zelo neprijetne ob\u010dutke. 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