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Vse dobro, dokler napak ne ponavljate in se iz njih raje u\u010dite, jih jemljete kot prilo\u017enost za rast. A kaj, ko mnogi izmed nas ponavljamo vedno iste napake in tako vztrajamo v enih in istih vzorcih ter posledi\u010dno odnosih? \u010ce si tudi vi \u017eelite najti izhod iz tega nesre\u010dnega cikla, je tukaj pet napak v odnosih, ki jih kolektivno ponavljamo in za katere si \u017eelimo, da bi jih premagali. Pa poglejmo, kako …<\/p>\n

1. Argument \u00bbZmaga\u00ab<\/strong>
\nNekateri med nami pristopamo do nesoglasij v odnosih, kot odvetniki, ki se borijo za zmago v to\u017ebi. Osredoto\u010deni smo na dokazovanje zmote na\u0161ega nasprotnika. Tak\u0161no vedenje pa rado vodi do zamer v odnosu. Pozabite na zmago in raje pomislite na to, kaj bi bilo resni\u010dno dobro za vaju – oba! Posku\u0161ajte razumeti partnerja in vsake pripombe ne razumite kot napada ali kritike. \u0160e dodaten nasvet: ne glede na to, kaj imate povedati, to povejte prijazno in spo\u0161tljivo.<\/p>\n

2. Postavljanje meja<\/strong>
\nV poskusnih obdobjih na za\u010detku zveze velikokrat pozabimo na postavljanje meja, ki so temelj dolgotrajnega odnosa. Namesto, da to ponavljamo v nedogled, se naslednji\u010d na za\u010detku zveze postavimo zase v to\u010dkah, ki so nam resni\u010dno pomembne. Partnerju povejte kaj vam je v\u0161e\u010d in kak\u0161na so va\u0161a pri\u010dakovanja – le tako v prihodnosti glede le-teh ne bo prihajalo do nesoglasij! Ko gre za lastnosti \u017eivljenjskega partnerja (kot so smisel za humor, zvestoba in so\u010dutje), ne pristajajte na manj. Va\u0161e ljubezensko \u017eivljenje bo toliko bolj\u0161e, ko boste vedeli in dali jasno vedeti, kak\u0161en odnos \u017eelite!<\/p>\n

3. Deljenje vseh podrobnosti<\/strong>
\n\u010ce se zdi va\u0161e \u017eivljenje kot serija Seks v mestu, saj prijateljicam na brunchih vedno zaupate vse skrivnosti vajinega odnosa in se nad njim tudi pogosto prito\u017eujete, ni ni\u010d \u010dudnega, \u010de se va\u0161e zveze vedno kon\u010dajo. Deljenje vseh podorbnosti o odnosu poru\u0161i zaupanje v vajin odnos, ni produktivno in vas osredoto\u010di na negativno. Raje kot, da se prito\u017eujete prijateljicam, komunicirajte s partnerjem. Odpravite te\u017eavo v njeni korenini in zgradite bolj\u0161i odnos, namesto da se osredoto\u010date na negativno. S prijateljicami pa se namesto o fantih pogovarjajte \u0161e o ciljih, sanjah in ostalih zanimivih stvareh.<\/p>\n

4. Posnemanje “popolnih \u017eivljenj” z dru\u017ebenih medijev<\/strong>
\nNi\u010d ni huj\u0161ega, kot posnemanje navidezno sre\u010dnih \u017eivljenj z dru\u017ebenih medijev, \u0161e huje, \u010de na podlagi fotografij njegove biv\u0161e, sklepate o njuni zvezi. Ok, poguglajte ga in se prepri\u010dajte, da ni zlo\u010dinec. Vse ostalo pa pustite pri miru in ga raje spoznajte v \u017eivo.<\/p>\n

5. Bodite po\u0161teni sami do sebe<\/strong>
\nKolikokrat ste se zaradi strahu pred zavrnitvijo odlo\u010dili za zavrnitev povabila na zmenek? Kolikokrat ste se zatekli k neiskrenosti, ker niste hoteli nekoga prizadeti? Kaj pa \u010dasi, ko ste rekli “da”, vendar ste v resnici mislili “ne?” Vsi smo \u017ee zakrivili kak\u0161nega od teh zlo\u010dinov in \u010das je, da s takim nekonstruktivnim vedenjem enkrat za vselej opravimo. Kli\u0161ejsko, vendar resni\u010dno: po\u0161tenost je res najbolj\u0161a politika! Strahu pred zavrnitvijo poka\u017eite sredinec in kon\u010dno povejte po resnici, kako se po\u010dutite. Prava oseba vam bo dopustila, da boste brutalno po\u0161teni – tudi do samih sebe!<\/p>\n

V. J.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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