{"id":438297,"date":"2020-11-23T06:50:25","date_gmt":"2020-11-23T05:50:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=438297"},"modified":"2020-11-23T06:50:25","modified_gmt":"2020-11-23T05:50:25","slug":"navada-ki-bo-razkrila-ali-bo-vajina-zveza-oziroma-zakon-trajal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/navada-ki-bo-razkrila-ali-bo-vajina-zveza-oziroma-zakon-trajal\/","title":{"rendered":"Navada, ki bo razkrila, ali bo vajina zveza oziroma zakon trajal"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2020\/11\/profimedia-0294917088-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2020\/11\/profimedia-0294917088-660x320.jpg 660w,https:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2020\/11\/profimedia-0294917088-320x155.jpg 330w\" \/><figcaption>Foto: Profimedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dacher Keltner, profesor psihologije na univerzi UC Berkeley in avtor knjige Born to Be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life, se je posvetil vpra\u0161anju, katera navada para je najbolj jasen kazalec, da bo zveza ali zakon trajal, poro\u010da Zadovoljna.hr. \u0160tevilni bi pomislili, da gre za komunikacijo, medsebojno spo\u0161tovanje ali pa negovanje skupnih vrednost, a v svoji raziskavi je Keltner pri\u0161el do druga\u010dnega zaklju\u010dka &#8211; skupni smeh je eden najve\u010djih pokazateljev, da bo ljubezenski odnos trajal.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010ce se par neha skupaj smejati, potem zveza ne bo trajala<\/h2>\n<p>Pri parih, ki so se lo\u010dili po v povpre\u010dju 13,9 letih, je pomanjkanje smeha \u017ee dolgo vnaprej nakazovalo, da se bo zakon slej ko prej kon\u010dal. V za\u010detni fazi zakona sta jeza in nespo\u0161tovanje izjemno toksi\u010dna. V kasnej\u0161ih fazah zakona pa je pomanjkanje smeha oziroma popolna odsotnost smeha v zakonu, glavni pokazatelj, da bo zakon razpadel, ugotavlja Dacher Keltner. Splo\u0161no mnenje je, da so spori tisti, ki odlo\u010dajo ali bo zakon trajal ali ne, a v resnici je zdrava mera sporov celo koristna za odnos. Po drugi strani pa, \u010de se par neha skupaj smejati, so mo\u017enosti, da bo kmalu konec njune zveze, veliko ve\u010dje.<\/p>\n<h2>Medsebojno &#8220;zafrkavanje&#8221; je klju\u010d<\/h2>\n<p>In s tem je povezana tudi nepri\u010dakova ve\u0161\u010dina, ki so jo najsre\u010dnej\u0161i pari najpogosteje izpostavili &#8211; medsebojno &#8220;zafrkavanje&#8221;. Raziskava je namre\u010d pokazala, da so pari, ki znajo simpati\u010dno zafrkavati drug drugega, ne le najsre\u010dnej\u0161i, ampak znajo tudi veliko bolje re\u0161evati konflike in obstaja veliko ve\u010dja mo\u017enost, da bodo ostali skupaj. &#8220;Skupno hecanje in zafrkavanje parom pomaga, da se pove\u017eejo, da se osvobodijo stresa in da la\u017eje re\u0161ujejo napetosti. Smeh in zafrkavanje pomagata, da se konflikti pomirijo in da se spomnita, kako v\u0161e\u010d sta si in kako rada se imata, pravi Julienne Derichs, zakonska in dru\u017einska\u00a0terapevtka. A seveda mora biti tudi zafrkavanje v pravi meri in nikoli poni\u017eujo\u010de ali zlonamerno. Zafrkavanje mora biti zabavno in se nana\u0161a na stvari, za katere veste, da jih partner ne do\u017eivlja kot neprijetne.<\/p>\n<p>Zafrkavanje je sprejemljivo le, kadar je obzirno do ob\u010dutljivih to\u010dk partnerja, in ko ka\u017ee na to, da v resnici vidite in razumete nevadno obna\u0161anje ali poglede na svet svojega partnerja, pravi dr. Jenn Mann, strokovnjakinja za zveze in avtorica knjige The Relationship Fix, \u0161e pi\u0161e Zadovoljna.hr.\u00a0&#8220;Sre\u010dni pari se med sabo ves \u010das zafrkavajo, a to po\u010dnejo na simpati\u010den, dobronameren na\u010din. Z zafrkavanjem izrazijo stvari, ki jih motijo in zaradi katerih se prepirajo, a na kooperativen in prijeten na\u010din. To je znak, da bosta najverjetneje dolgo ostala skupaj,&#8221; pojasnjuje Dacher.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dobre in uspe\u0161ne zveze ali zakonske zveze se ne dogajajo sami od sebe. 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