{"id":44293,"date":"2016-05-03T06:39:00","date_gmt":"2016-05-03T04:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/05\/03\/7-nacinov-kako-tasta-spremeniti-v-zaveznika\/"},"modified":"2016-05-16T10:19:02","modified_gmt":"2016-05-16T08:19:02","slug":"7-nacinov-kako-tasta-spremeniti-v-zaveznika","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/7-nacinov-kako-tasta-spremeniti-v-zaveznika\/","title":{"rendered":"7 na\u010dinov, kako tasta spremeniti v zaveznika"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u010ce je na koncu uspelo Benu Stillerju v filmu Njeni tastari, lahko tudi tebi.
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Saj se verjetno spomni\u0161 filma Njeni tastari<\/em>, kjer Robert De Niro v vlogi dominantnega tasta predstavlja strah in trepet za Bena Stillerja, ki igra zaro\u010denca njegove h\u010derke? No, \u010detudi tvoj tast ni tako grozen, pa je vseeno dobro, da se mu prikupi\u0161, saj je konec koncev tudi od njega odvisno, kako uspe\u0161na bo zveza med tabo in njegovo h\u010derko. Kako? Takole.<\/p>\n

1. Poka\u017ei spo\u0161tovanje<\/h2>\n

Ne glede na to, kak\u0161en odnos ima\u0161 s svojim tastom, bodisi je topel in pristen ali pa ga naravnost sovra\u017ei\u0161, si mu dol\u017een pokazati dolo\u010deno spo\u0161tovanje. Navsezadnje je on ne glede na vse \u0161e vedno o\u010de tvoje izbranke in \u010de ne bi bilo njega, z vsemi slabimi in dobrimi lastnostmi, potem tudi tvoje drage ne bi imel nikoli prilo\u017enosti spoznati. Spo\u0161tovanje se vedno obnese!<\/p>\n

2. Izpostavi svoje dobre lastnosti<\/h2>\n

Ob spoznavnem sre\u010danju s tvojim tastom sku\u0161aj pogovor obrniti tako, da se bo\u0161 imel prilo\u017enost pokazati v najbolj\u0161i lu\u010di. Izpostavi svoje dobre lastnosti in vrline, vendar pazi, da pri tem ne postane\u0161 pretirano baha\u0161ki, ohol ali poni\u017een. Klju\u010dno je, da ohrani\u0161 dobro mero skromnosti in tudi zadr\u017eanosti.<\/p>\n

3. Razkrij svoje na\u010drte za prihodnost<\/h2>\n

\u010ce namerava\u0161 z njegovo h\u010derko ostati dolgo, potem mora\u0161 svojemu tastu pokazati, da bo\u0161 zanjo lepo skrbel in ji nudil vse, kar si po njegovem zaslu\u017ei. Noben o\u010de namre\u010d ne vidi rad svoje h\u010derke v zvezi z zgubo in delomrzne\u017eem. Zato je bistveno, da mu razkrije\u0161 nekaj svojih ambicij, mu pove\u0161, kako se vidi\u0161 v prihodnosti in kako namerava\u0161 v vse to vklju\u010diti njegovo h\u010di.<\/p>\n

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Pomembno je, da ti tast za\u010dne zaupati. Saj ve\u0161, “circle of trust” <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

4. Ne bodi preve\u010d doma\u010di<\/h2>\n

Za dober odnos s tastom je klju\u010dno, da ohrani\u0161 nekaj distance. To pomeni, da ga ne pri\u010dne\u0161 prijateljsko trepljati po ramenih, kot da sta skupaj odra\u0161\u010dala, se z njim absolutno ne pogovarja\u0161 o tem, kaj imajo \u017eenske rade v postelji in seveda ne kritizira\u0161 njegove h\u010dere. On namre\u010d ni tvoj kolega ali prijatelj, temve\u010d o\u010de tvoje partnerke.<\/p>\n

5. Nekatere teme je bolje pustiti ob strani<\/h2>\n

Nekatere teme pogovorov so \u017ee same po sebi tak\u0161ne, da prinesejo nestrinjanje, kjer se kre\u0161ejo mnenja in lahko pride do dokaj vro\u010dekrvnih izmenjav argumentov. To je recimo vpra\u0161anje religije ali politike, zato se vsaj sprva sku\u0161aj izogibati pogovorov o tem. Morda je tvoj tast gore\u010d zagovornik popolnoma nasprotnih mnenj kot ti in \u010de je \u0161e bolj vro\u010dekrvne narave, se lahko kaj hitro znajdeta sredi prepira.<\/p>\n

6. Pozanimaj se, kak\u0161en je<\/h2>\n

Preden se sre\u010da\u0161 z njim, se pri svoji partnerki pozanimaj o tem, kak\u0161ne hobije in zanimanja ima in predvsem, katerih tem se mora\u0161 izogibati. To ti bo nedvomno zagotovilo to\u010dko prednosti, saj si bo\u0161 lahko \u017ee vnaprej pripravil kak\u0161no izto\u010dnico ali dve za pogovor z njim.<\/p>\n

7. Prikupi se ta\u0161\u010di<\/h2>\n

Po navadi je tako, da imajo ta\u0161\u010de veliko raje svoje zete kot njihovi mo\u017eje, zato ti bo pri odnosu s tastom zelo koristilo, \u010de bo\u0161 pri ta\u0161\u010di dobro zapisan. \u010ce te bo ta\u0161\u010da imela rada, ti bo vedno prisko\u010dila na pomo\u010d v ko\u010dljivih situacijah in te tudi zagovarjala pred tastom, \u010de te bo ta morebiti kritiziral. S ta\u0161\u010dino podporo bo\u0161 postal prakti\u010dno nepremagljiv!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tudi tast ti lahko zagreni \u017eivljenje. 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