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Pomembnost komunikacije<\/h2>\n

Mo\u0161ki in \u017eenske se sporazumevamo razli\u010dno. John Gray<\/a>, mojster komunikacije med spoloma, trdi celo, da pri mo\u0161kem pot do ljubezni vodi prek spolnosti, medtem ko se \u017eenske spolnosti pribli\u017eujejo prek ljubezni oziroma ob\u010dutkov. Ni \u010dudno, da mnogi pari ugotovijo, da ne govorijo istega jezika.<\/p>\n

Razlike med vama<\/h2>\n

Biolo\u0161ka osnova in na\u010din vzgoje lahko privedeta k temu, da pride do razhajanja v komuniciranju med mo\u0161kimi in \u017eenskami. Kar pa niti ni tako problemati\u010dno, \u010de se zavedamo in prepoznamo razlike ter \u0161ele iz te to\u010dke za\u010dnemo razvijati dialog. Kadar \u017eenska denimo misli, da je mo\u0161ki ne poslu\u0161a, se bo umaknila \u2013 tako \u010dustveno kot telesno.<\/p>\n

Vzemimo primer neke \u017eenske, ki je izjavila, \u00bbda se je v svojega mo\u017ea zaljubila, ko je ugotovila, da jo vedno poslu\u0161a. Popolnoma je bila presene\u010dena, ko je nekaj dni pozneje to\u010dno ponovil njene besede in razumel, kaj je hotela povedati\u00ab.<\/p>\n

Kaj naj bi si \u017eelela \u017eenska<\/h2>\n

\u017denske imajo na\u010deloma najraje samozavestne mo\u0161ke, ki znajo poslu\u0161ati. Kadar vam \u017eenska zaupa problem, skrb ali pa zgolj dogodek iz svojega \u017eivljenja, ne pri\u010dakuje vedno nasveta. Zato je pametno kar takoj vpra\u0161ati \u00bbhej, se \u017eeli\u0161 samo izpovedati, ali mogo\u010de potrebuje\u0161 nasvet?\u00ab<\/em> S tem ji naka\u017eete zvrhano mero spo\u0161tovanja. Pogosto si namre\u010d \u017eeli le, da bi jo poslu\u0161ali. Biti pokorviteljski pa lahko povzro\u010di, da se bo pri\u010dela umikati stran.<\/p>\n

Komunkacija in spolnost<\/h2>\n

Na podro\u010dju komunikacije imajo nekatere komunikacijske razlike med spoloma konkretne u\u010dinke oziroma posledice. \u017denske si sicer \u017eelijo, da veste, kaj jih spolno zadovoljuje, hkrati pa o tem ne bi ravno govorile z vami. \u010ceprav \u017eenske v \u017eenski dru\u017ebi govorijo o spolnosti, pa so mnoge v zadregi, ko je treba o tem spregovoriti z mo\u0161kim.<\/p>\n

To so 4 najbolj verjetni razlogi<\/strong>, zakaj \u017eenske svojim partnerjem nerade zaupajo, \u010desa si \u017eelijo:<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0 \u00a0 Bojijo, da bodo izpadle bodisi opolzke bodisi kriti\u010dne, \u010de bodo povedale, \u010desa si \u017eelijo.<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0Ne najdejo pravih besed, da bi opisale, kaj \u010dutijo.<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0Skrbi jih, da bo mo\u0161ki predlog sli\u0161al kot kritiko in mislil, da ni dober ljubimec.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u017denskam se zdi, da mo\u0161ki itak ne poslu\u0161ajo zares.<\/p>\n

Izgledati kot ‘pridno dekle’<\/h2>\n

Mnoge \u017eenske, \u0161e posebno samske, \u0161e vedno \u017eelijo, da bi jih imeli za pridna dekleta in no\u010dejo vzbujati vtisa, da so spale z veliko mo\u0161kimi. \u00bbBojijo\u00ab se, da bodo mo\u0161ki kakr\u0161enkoli ‘to in to mi je v\u0161e\u010d’ razumeli kot namig, da je to po\u010del ‘drug mo\u0161ki’, kar pa lahko povzro\u010di u\u017ealjenost mo\u0161kega. Tu je seveda problem seksisti\u010dnega razumevanja<\/span><\/span>, kdo s kom in kako pogosto lahko spolno ob\u010duje.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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