{"id":46869,"date":"2016-05-07T05:01:00","date_gmt":"2016-05-07T03:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=46869"},"modified":"2016-05-16T08:26:10","modified_gmt":"2016-05-16T06:26:10","slug":"7-zmot-o-varanju","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/7-zmot-o-varanju\/","title":{"rendered":"7 zmot o varanju!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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1. Varajo tisti, ki so doma nesre\u010dni<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Mit, ki ga radi zelo pogosto verjamejo predvsem tisti, ki varajo, vendar ne dr\u017ei povsem. Vsaj ne pri mo\u0161kih. Veliko mo\u0161kih, ki ljubijo svojo partnerko in imajo z njo odli\u010den seks, nikoli ne izpusti prilo\u017enosti, da bi spali z drugo \u017eensko. Vendar nikakor ne gre posplo\u0161evati. Neka raziskava je pokazala, da je 56 odstotkov mo\u0161kih, ki varajo svoje partnerke, doma zelo zadovoljnih. Tako je zatrdilo le 34 nezvestih \u017eensk. Pri \u017eenskah ponavadi velja, da varajo, ker so v zakonu nesre\u010dne.<\/p>\n

2. Mo\u0161ki varajo pogosteje kot \u017eenske<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Na splo\u0161no velja, da ta trend izginja in da \u017eenske ravno tako pogosto ska\u010dejo \u010dez plot kot mo\u0161ki. Zakaj? Predvsem zato, ker si \u017eelijo ne\u010desa novega in druga\u010dnega. Varanje je lahko tudi kazen za to, ker menijo, da jih partner ne ceni dovolj kot ljube\u010do \u017eeno in mamo njegovih otrok, ker ji partner ne posve\u010da dovolj pozornosti ali ker sta se s partnerjem oddaljila. Vendarle pa naj bi \u017eenske ponavadi bolj pekla vest kot mo\u0161ke.<\/p>\n

\u010ce to dr\u017ei, morajo povedati nezvesti mo\u0161ki. Nekatere \u0161tudije pa ka\u017eejo na to, da \u017eenske bolje prikrivajo la\u017ei in jim ve\u010dkrat uspe, da partnerji za njihov skok \u010dez plot nikoli ne izvedo.<\/p>\n

Tukaj lahko razbijemo \u0161e en mit, ki mo\u0161kim o\u010dita, da pogosteje \u017eelijo spremeniti prijateljstvo v afero. To ne dr\u017ei povsem, ker so ponavadi \u017eenske tiste, ki se bolj \u010dustveno vpletejo in sku\u0161ajo na temeljih prijateljstva postaviti uspe\u0161nej\u0161o ljubezensko zvezo, kot jo trenutno imajo. Mo\u0161ki si obi\u010dajno \u017eelijo le popestritve spolnega \u017eivljenja s \u010dim manj obveznosti. Bi se pa veljalo vpra\u0161ati, \u010de ni morda tudi to mit?<\/p>\n

3. Pri aferah gre le za seks<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Velikokrat je sicer tako, a ne vedno.<\/p>\n

Z aferami posku\u0161ajo posamezniki ponavadi izkusiti in dobiti tisto, kar jim v njihovi zvezi manjka. In pomanjkljivosti je v vsaki zvezi veliko. Tudi popolni partnerji niso varni pred prevaro, ker se lahko njihovi partnerji te popolnosti naveli\u010dajo. Ne gre torej le za seks.<\/p>\n

4. \u010ce vas vara, vas ne ljubi<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u010ce vas partner\/ka vara, vas ne spo\u0161tuje oziroma ne spo\u0161tuje vajinega dogovora. To dr\u017ei kot pribito. Nikakor pa to ne pomeni, da vas ne ljubi. \u0160tevilni ahko namre\u010d zlahka lo\u010dijo seks od ljubezni. Vpra\u0161ati pa se morate, ali vam ta definicija ljubezni ustreza in zado\u0161\u010da.<\/p>\n

5. Afero bi lahko prepre\u010dili<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ne dr\u017ei. Lahko se \u0161e tako trudite in posku\u0161ate biti \u010dim bolj\u0161i parter oziroma posku\u0161ate nadzorovati kakr\u0161enkoli znak morebitne prevare, pa prevare ne boste prepre\u010dili, \u010de jo va\u0161\/-a partner\/-ka namerava izpeljati.<\/p>\n

Vse, kar lahko naredite, je, da si izberete \u010dim bolj sebi ustreznega partnerja\/-ko, ki bo spo\u0161toval\/-a vajin dogovor o zvestobi ter da se za odnos ves \u010das obojestransko trudita.<\/p>\n

6. Varanje je le prakticiranje spolnega odnosa<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Radi bi to verjeli, vendar je zmotno. Tudi mo\u010dna \u010dustvena nezvestoba lahko partnerja\/-ko in vajino zvezo zelo prizadene. Pogosto celo bolj kot fizi\u010dna nezvestoba. \u010custva nas namre\u010d zasovjijo, te\u017eko jih odmislimo, spremljajo nas\u00a0 vedno in povsod, tudi v postelji s partnerjem\/-ko. Tudi to, da se pretvarjate, da ste prosti, ko ste v zvezi ali pa to, da pre\u017eivljate \u010dustveno intimne trenutke z nekom drugim, lahko va\u0161 partner razume kot \u010dustveno prevaro. Vi pa se morda v svojo zvezo ne morete vrniti ve\u010d.<\/p>\n

7. Afere lahko re\u0161ijo zvezo<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Temu mitu najraje verjamejo posamezniki, ki varajo. Vendar ne dr\u017ei. Skok \u010dez plot najve\u010dkrat popolnoma uni\u010di zaupanje partnerja\/-ke, zaupanje pa je osnova za trdne temelje vsake veze. Le redkokateri par se lahko vrne na to\u010dko, na kateri je bil pred prevaro. Skoka \u010dez plot prevarani in tisti, ki je varal, nikoli ne pozabita, in prevara ju najve\u010dkrat kot temna senca spremlja skozi vso vezo, \u010de se seveda odlo\u010dita ostati skupaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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