{"id":59240,"date":"2016-05-23T05:29:25","date_gmt":"2016-05-23T03:29:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/05\/23\/prepoznajte-te-znake-strupenega-partnerskega-odnosa\/"},"modified":"2016-05-24T12:25:26","modified_gmt":"2016-05-24T10:25:26","slug":"prepoznajte-te-znake-strupenega-partnerskega-odnosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/prepoznajte-te-znake-strupenega-partnerskega-odnosa\/","title":{"rendered":"Prepoznajte te znake strupenega partnerskega odnosa!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Predvsem je potrebno vedeti, da odnos zastrupimo s svojimi toksi\u010dnimi mislimi<\/strong>, \u010detudi jih mogo\u010de kdaj ne povemo na glas. Pa si na primer mislimo, da bi moj fant seveda kar moral vedeti, kaj se mi mota po glavi<\/strong> in kaj si \u017eelim. Besedica \u00bbmora\u0161\u00ab<\/strong>, ki jo izre\u010demo partnerju, ubija ljube\u010do pripadnost<\/strong>. In enako \u0161kodljivo je, ko to besedico imamo v mislih in je sicer morebiti ne izre\u010demo, a skozi na\u0161e vedenje dajemo nam dragi osebi vedeti, da nekaj ni naredil, pa ga grdo gledamo (sam seveda nima pojma, zakaj ga tako osorno o\u0161vrknemo s pogledom) ali pa\u010d \u010dustveno izsilimo od partnerja nekaj, kar ho\u010demo, pa mu tega nismo primerno in argumentirano povedali.<\/p>\n

Tole je nekaj znakov strupenega razmerja<\/strong>:<\/h2>\n
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  1. Kritika in prezir<\/strong>. Oboje zelo uni\u010dujo\u010de deluje na ljube\u010do zvezo. Partner se dela norca iz vas. \u0160e posebej je to bole\u010de, \u010de to po\u010dne v javnosti, pred drugimi ljudmi. Kar naredite, najde vedno nekaj, kar lahko pokritizira ali se ne strinja. Va\u0161e dose\u017eke prezira in jih omalova\u017euje. Lahko se vede superiorno in na vas gleda zvi\u0161ka. Tak\u0161en odnos med partnerjema vodi v razkroj poprej ljube\u010de zveze, je tudi izjemno \u010dustveno nezdrav. Boli.<\/li>\n
  2. Izogibanje pogovorom in soo\u010denju<\/strong>. Ti\u0161ina. Beg iz situacije, v kateri bi se bilo treba za\u010deti pogovarjati in za\u010deti \u010distiti nabrane nesporazume in \u010dustveno ohlajenost. Je zelo bole\u010de stanje, saj je prav izogibanje in ignoriranje oblika pasivne agresije, ki nas boli, a tej bole\u010dini ne znamo dolo\u010diti to\u010dnega izvora, le zelo nas prizadene.<\/li>\n
  3. Po\u010dutite se izgubljeni<\/strong>. Va\u0161a energija odteka in se ne more napolniti s \u010dustveno bli\u017eino partnerja, ker se ta odmika, partnerja padata v odtujeni in ohlajeni partnerski odnos. Po\u010dutite se potla\u010dene, \u010dustveno izdane, vsako \u010dustveno pribli\u017eevanje partnerju se izjalovi, ker se ta izmika, i\u0161\u010de razne izgovore, be\u017ei pred soo\u010danjem s propadom \u010dustvene zveze ter krivi prvega partnerja, da je on kriv v celoti za nastalo strupeno razmerje.<\/li>\n
  4. Pomanjkanje prevzemanja odgovornosti<\/strong>. Vsaka partnerska stran naj bi prevzela svoje dele\u017e odgovornosti za uspe\u0161no zvezo. Mnogi tega ne naredijo, so agresivni do partnerja in od njega zahtevajo, da izpolnjuje vse njihove \u017eelje, sami pa menijo, da jim ni treba biti odgovorni za svoje odlo\u010ditve, ki seveda tudi prizadenejo partnerja.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Bodite iskreni sami s seboj. <\/strong>Pomembno je vedeti, kdaj je tisti trenutek in \u010das, ko je potrebno izstopiti iz strupene zveze. Recepta \u017eal ni. Mogo\u010de nekateri pari prezgodaj odnehajo in se ne potrudijo dovolj, pa kasneje ob\u017ealujejo svojo odlo\u010ditev o lo\u010ditvi, ko niso \u0161e poskusili vseh sredstev, ki so na razpolago. \u010ce pa opazite, da va\u0161 partner no\u010de delati z vami na vajinem odnosu, je mogo\u010de \u010das, da odidete. \u010ce boste ugotovili, da ste se zataknili v strupenem odnosu, bo to mogo\u010de dovolj velika motivacije, da tak\u0161en odnos prekinete. Ker veste svojo vrednost in se cenite, imate radi. Razhod boli, potreben je \u010das, da prebolite, a nagrada je lahko tudi ta, da sebe dobite nazaj. Pa \u0161e z mnogo \u017eivljenjskih in partnerskih izku\u0161enj boste opremljeni, torej je ve\u010dja verjetnost, da enakih napak ne boste ponovno delali v prihodnje.<\/p>\n

    Avtorica prispevka sem univerzitetna diplomirana socialna pedagoginja in diplomirana socialna delavka Melita Kuhar<\/strong>, ki vodim projekt Svetovalnica<\/strong>, www.svetovalnica.si<\/a><\/span><\/strong>, dosegljiva sem na tel.\u0161t. 031 666 168<\/strong>. \u010ce bi se radi naro\u010dili na individualno svetovanje ali me kaj povpra\u0161ali, pi\u0161ite na: info@svetovalnica.si<\/a><\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    Ve\u010d o zgoraj napisanem si lahko preberete tudi socialnem omre\u017eju www.facebook.com\/Svetovalnica<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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