{"id":70431,"date":"2016-06-08T05:15:39","date_gmt":"2016-06-08T03:15:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=70431"},"modified":"2016-06-17T11:30:42","modified_gmt":"2016-06-17T09:30:42","slug":"ni-cudno-da-nas-moski-ne-razumejo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/ni-cudno-da-nas-moski-ne-razumejo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ni \u010dudno, da nas mo\u0161ki ne razumejo!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Pri\u010dakujemo, pa sploh ne vemo kaj! Pri\u010dakujemo vse in \u0161e ve\u010d in \u010de tega de dobimo, dose\u017eemo, vr\u017eemo pu\u0161ko v koruzo. Samo i\u0161\u010demo napake, razloge, zakaj zveza ni popolna. In \u010de razloge i\u0161\u010demo, jih najdemo, in zato zveze razpadajo ena za drugo. Mogo\u010de razpadajo zato, ker nas je strah, da bi uspele? No, ampak o tem kdaj drugi\u010d. \u017de v enem od prej\u0161njih zapisov sem pisala o tem, da so nam filmi sprali mo\u017egane z romanti\u010dnimi predstavami o tem, kak\u0161en je popoln partner, popolna zveza. V resnici kaj takega ne obstaja. Ne obstajajo pravila, kaj mora idealen partner imeti, kaj mora idealna zveza imeti. Vsaka \u017eenska je svet zase in prav tako je z mo\u0161kimi. In ljudje v kombinaciji z razli\u010dnimi karakterji razli\u010dno reagiramo, razli\u010dno reagiramo v razli\u010dnih \u017eivljenjskih obdobjih, v razli\u010dnih situacijah. Stvar pa je celo \u0161e bolj zakomplicirana. \u017denska lahko v eni zvezi idealno funkcionira z mo\u0161kim, ki je “copata”, v zvezi z drugim, ki je prav tako “copata”, pa ji gre to neverjetno na \u017eivce. Zmagovalnega recepta torej ni!<\/p>\n

V\u010dasih bi morale v mo\u0161ke bolj zaupati<\/h2>\n

Problem je tudi v ideji emancipacije. \u017denske smo prepri\u010dane, da smo vsemogo\u010dne, da vse zmoremo same, da se brez te\u017eav kosamo z mo\u0161kimi, v\u010dasih smo celo bolj\u0161e od njih, da jih v resnici sploh ne potrebujemo. Po drugi strani pa se razburjamo, ker ni ve\u010d mo\u0161kih, ki bi bili gentlemani, ki bi nam odpirali vrata, ki bi nam dvorili, ki bi bili pravi mo\u0161ki in stvari vzeli v svoje roke. V resnici same ne vemo, kaj ho\u010demo. Na\u0161e \u017eelje, pri\u010dakovanja se iz dneva v dan spreminjajo in \u010de \u0161e same temu ne moremo slediti, kako bodo ubogi mo\u0161ki. In \u010de sem zadnji\u010d govorila o tem, da imamo z dana\u0161njimi mo\u0161kimi, ki kar no\u010dejo odrasti in se na njih ne moremo zanesti, problem, je velik del problema tudi v nas. Same sebi \u017eivljenje po nepotrebnem kompliciramo. Vse preve\u010d analiziramo, rade iz mi\u0161i naredimo slona, ni\u010d ni dovolj dobro za nas, ne upamo se prepustiti, da se ne bi opekle. S tem same sebi delamo \u0161kodo. V\u010dasih bi se morale otresti vseh zakajev, kakojev, bijev in \u010dejev, se prijeti za nos in sko\u010diti v globino. Kaj je najslab\u0161e, kar se nam lahko zgodi? To da se spet ope\u010demo, da nas spet kak mesec ali dva boli. Ampak potem gremo znova naprej, prebolimo. Mogo\u010de pa se zgodi, da se mo\u0161ki, ki na prvi pogled deluje kot mamin sin\u010dek, izka\u017ee, da v resnici ni tak, ali pa da se ob pravi \u017eenski lahko spremeni. Ampak \u010de ne poizkusimo, ne bomo nikoli vedele. In saj veste kako pravijo: Na koncu obi\u010dajno ob\u017ealuje\u0161 samo tisto, kar nisi naredil, in ne tisto, kar si.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u017denske od mo\u0161kih preve\u010d pri\u010dakujemo! To je dejstvo! Pri\u010dakujemo v\u010dasih nemogo\u010de stvari, zato ni \u010dudno, da so zveze obsojene na propad.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1605],"tags":[2437,2553],"source":[2582,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nNi \u010dudno, da nas mo\u0161ki ne razumejo! - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/aktualno\/mnenja\/ni-cudno-da-nas-moski-ne-razumejo\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Ni \u010dudno, da nas mo\u0161ki ne razumejo! - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u017denske od mo\u0161kih preve\u010d pri\u010dakujemo! 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