{"id":75164,"date":"2016-06-14T05:03:35","date_gmt":"2016-06-14T03:03:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/06\/14\/zenske-ne-delajte-vendar-teh-trapastih-napak\/"},"modified":"2016-06-22T11:36:04","modified_gmt":"2016-06-22T09:36:04","slug":"zenske-ne-delajte-vendar-teh-trapastih-napak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/zenske-ne-delajte-vendar-teh-trapastih-napak\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017denske, ne delajte vendar teh trapastih napak!"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/06\/img-478073311-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/06\/img-478073311-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/06\/img-478073311-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Napaka \u0161t. 1: Vi opravite vse delo<\/h2>\n<p>Svetovalka in avtorica knjig za samopomo\u010d Susan Elliott opozarja, da se \u017eenske mnogokrat zapletejo v razmi\u0161ljanje, da bodo s tem, da svojemu partnerju organizirajo \u017eivljenje, pri njem postale nepogre\u0161ljive in nenadomestljive. \u010ce se bojite, da bo va\u0161e razmerje brez va\u0161ega usmerjanja propadlo, potem ste v razmerju z neodlo\u010dnim mo\u0161kim, ki od vas potrebuje vlogo &#8221;mame&#8221;. Mnogokrat mo\u0161ki, ko \u017eenska opusti usmerjanje, za\u010dne prevzemati odgovornost za svoje \u017eivljenje in za svoje odlo\u010ditve ter se \u0161ele takrat, ko ga nima kdo usmeriti, za\u010dne usmerjati sam. S tem, da same opravite vso delo in same prina\u0161ate klju\u010dne odlo\u010ditve v va\u0161i vezi, \u0161kodite ne le partnerju, temve\u010d tudi sebi, saj je tak\u0161na vloga v vezi zelo obremenjujo\u010da in utrujajo\u010da. Pustite nekaj dela tudi njemu.<\/p>\n<h2>Napaka \u0161t. 2: Do njega se obna\u0161ate kot mama do otroka<\/h2>\n<p>Ogromno \u017eensk na mo\u0161kega \u017ee od prvega zmenka dalje gleda kot na projekt, ki ga je treba spremeniti oziroma mu je treba pomagati. Mnogo se jih namre\u010d zagleda v &#8221;nebogljene&#8221; mo\u0161ke, ki nujno potrebujejo pomo\u010d, da se poberejo na noge. Ta pojav opisujejo mnogi avtorji knjig o razmerjih in dodajajo razlago, da gre pri taki zaljubljenosti za prevlado materinskega \u010duta, kar takoj zbudi potrebo po negovanju in nudenju pomo\u010di. Avtorica Deborah Dunn opozarja, da v tak\u0161nem primeru zelo hitro pride do zamenjave pojmov &#8221;biti potrebovan&#8221; in &#8221;biti ljubljen&#8221;. Tak\u0161no obna\u0161anje \u017eenske ponavadi postavi na realna tla takrat, ko same potrebujejo partnerjevo oporo, pa je ne morejo dobiti, ker je ni zmo\u017een ponuditi.<\/p>\n<h2>Napaka \u0161t. 3: Pri\u010dakujete, da vam bo bral misli<\/h2>\n<p>\u017denske velikokrat mislijo, da bi v pravi vezi partner enostavno moral vedeti, kaj naj naredi in kaj njihova partnerka razmi\u0161lja ali \u010duti. Ko vidijo, da to vendarle ni mogo\u010de, pa mnoge za\u010dutijo jezo, \u017ealost ali pa celo razmi\u0161ljajo, da je veza obsojena na propad. Nobena ljubezenska ali partnerska kemija ni tako posebna, da bi iz va\u0161ega partnerja naredila telepata. V zdravi vezi ljudje svoje \u017eelje in razmi\u0161ljanja morajo izraziti ter sklepati kompromise. \u010ce pri\u010dakujete, da partner mora brati va\u0161e misli, to ni po\u0161teno do njega. V primeru, da partner va\u0161e izra\u017eene \u017eelje in razmi\u0161ljanja vedno znova zavra\u010da, se jim posmehuje ali pa jih tepta, pa so misli o tem, da je veza usojena na propad, logi\u010dne in razumljive. Imejte v mislih, da se mo\u0161ki vedno bolje odzovejo na konkretne pro\u0161nje kot na namige, po katerih po vsej verjetnosti delo na koncu opravite same. Vse mu torej povejte direktno.<\/p>\n<h2>Napaka \u0161t. 4: Izgubljate svojo identiteto<\/h2>\n<p>Ko vas mo\u0161ki povabi v svoj svet, je vse super in lepo. Vendar mnoge \u017eenske prav v teh trenutkih naredijo eno najpogostej\u0161ih napak, in sicer pozabijo na svoje interese ter na svoje prijatelje. Zaradi veze enostavno pozabijo na vse, rezultat tega pa je lahko tudi to, da postanejo manj zanimive svojemu partnerju. Ko se veza kon\u010da, ostanejo le vpra\u0161anja o tem, kaj se je zgodilo z njihovim \u017eivljenjem. Ne gradite svojega \u017eivljenja le okoli svojega partnerja. Kljub zaljubljenosti in pestrosti dogajanja ne pozabite na sebe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spoznajte najpogostej\u0161e napake, ki jih lahko zavoljo zaslepljenosti z ljubeznijo v vezi naredi \u0161e tako pametna \u017eenska. 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