{"id":76564,"date":"2016-06-16T05:03:27","date_gmt":"2016-06-16T03:03:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/2016\/06\/16\/kako-prekiniti-agonijo-po-nesrecni-ljubezenski-izkusnji\/"},"modified":"2016-06-25T19:14:44","modified_gmt":"2016-06-25T17:14:44","slug":"kako-prekiniti-agonijo-po-nesrecni-ljubezenski-izkusnji","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-prekiniti-agonijo-po-nesrecni-ljubezenski-izkusnji\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako prekiniti agonijo po nesre\u010dni ljubezenski izku\u0161nji?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Njuna ljubezenska ladja je butala ob \u010deri, dokler se ni od bole\u010din predal in mi prisluhnil.<\/p>\n

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\u00bbTa zgodba najbr\u017e ni osamljeni primer v tvojem \u017eivljenju\u00ab, sem ga prepri\u010dala in pritegnila njegovo pozornost. \u017dalostno mi je prikimal.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Kako prekiniti ta za\u010daran krog in \u017eiveti naprej? (foto:Thinkstock)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Ko sem pogledala, kak\u0161en tip mo\u0161kega sedi nasproti mene, sem ugotovila, da mu po celem telesu pi\u0161e: \u017eenskar! Za \u017eenskarja je zna\u010dilno, da mu naklonjene \u017eenske niso zanimive. Pritegnejo ga tak\u0161ne, ki mu predstavljajo izziv. Na \u017ealost si \u017eenskarji ta izziv narobe interpretirajo.<\/p>\n

Pozneje sem spoznala \u0161e tri podobne primere, zato sem se odlo\u010dila, da jim poka\u017eem pot iz za\u010daranega kroga.<\/p>\n

\u017denskar ni noben mo\u0161ki po svoji krivdi. Tudi on si \u017eeli biti ljubljen in ljubiti.<\/h2>\n

Le zakaj ga pritegnejo neuravnove\u0161ene \u017eenske, ki imajo same s seboj ogromno te\u017eav? Verjetno zato, ker so sami neuravnove\u0161eni. Vse \u017eenske v teh primerih so bile lepotice, a ta lepota na \u017ealost ni segla navznoter.<\/p>\n

Ko je bilo po\u010dutje nevzdr\u017eno, so bili prisiljeni, da se poslovijo in gredo svojo pot. Vsi so ugotovili, da so jim punce le kradle njihovo energijo, v zameno pa niso vrnile ni\u010d. Ko je bil vr\u010dek prazen – ko so bili iz\u010drpani, dekletom niso bili ve\u010d zanimivi.<\/p>\n

Prava ljubezen terja pretok energije med obema partnerjema!<\/h2>\n

Prvi fant je ob spoznanju novega dekleta spet za\u010del kazati svoje hibe. Dekle ga je obo\u017eevalo, se mu javljalo na telefon brez otro\u010djih igric, zato je njegov interes za\u010del plahneti.<\/p>\n

Takrat sem mu predlagala, naj ji da prilo\u017enost. Nekje globoko v sebi je imel fant ob\u010dutek, da si ne zaslu\u017ei biti spo\u0161tovan in ljubljen. Zaradi tega ob\u010dutka ga \u017eenske, ki so mu to ponujale, niso bile zanimive.<\/p>\n

Zaupala sem mu, da \u010de bo dal punci prilo\u017enost, ga bo nau\u010dila novih ob\u010dutkov v ljubezni. Ob tej izku\u0161nji je spoznal, da od \u017eenske lahko tudi prejema ljubezen in energijo, ne da jo zmeraj samo daje.<\/p>\n

Stare vzorce lahko prekinemo le z novimi navadami. Ni treba, da postane doti\u010dna punca njegova \u017eivljenjska izbranka. Dovolj je, da se je fant za\u010del zavedati, da mu je bila poslana z namenom, da ga nau\u010di novih stvari: kako prejemati naklonjenost in biti obo\u017eevan.<\/p>\n

Vsi v \u017eivljenju potrebujemo nekaj ponavljajo\u010dih se neprijetnih vzorcev, da la\u017eje zapustimo svojo dramo. Le takrat smo sposobni gledati na \u017eivljenjske situacije malo druga\u010de.<\/p>\n

\u010ce \u017eelite s svetovalko Lidijo Mur\u0161ek in z bralci Mo\u0161ki.si deliti osebno izku\u0161njo, ki vas je mo\u010dno zaznamovala, jo po\u0161ljite na Lidijin\u00a0elektronski naslov: lidija.mursek@gmail.com<\/span>!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pred dobrim letom dni sem spoznala fanta, ki je bil na robu obupa. Bil je v vezi z mi\u010dno gospodi\u010dno, ki se je po nekaj letih odlo\u010dila, da ga ne potrebuje ve\u010d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1091],"tags":[1492,1399,1400,1689],"source":[1518,1530,1529],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nKako prekiniti agonijo po nesre\u010dni ljubezenski izku\u0161nji? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/kako-prekiniti-agonijo-po-nesrecni-ljubezenski-izkusnji\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kako prekiniti agonijo po nesre\u010dni ljubezenski izku\u0161nji? - Hudo Slovenija\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Pred dobrim letom dni sem spoznala fanta, ki je bil na robu obupa. 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