{"id":77378,"date":"2016-06-18T05:36:53","date_gmt":"2016-06-18T03:36:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=77378"},"modified":"2016-06-24T10:46:06","modified_gmt":"2016-06-24T08:46:06","slug":"pismo-nekdanjemu-mozu-pornografija-je-unicila-tebe-in-naju","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/pismo-nekdanjemu-mozu-pornografija-je-unicila-tebe-in-naju\/","title":{"rendered":"Pismo nekdanjemu mo\u017eu: &#8220;Pornografija je uni\u010dila tebe in naju!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/06\/thinkstockphotos-472250992-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/06\/thinkstockphotos-472250992-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2015\/06\/thinkstockphotos-472250992-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto; Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;Pornografija te je uni\u010dila. Uni\u010dila je tudi naju. Ko me ljudje, \u0161okirani, vpra\u0161ajo, zakaj nisva ve\u010d skupaj, zakaj sem zapustila tako \u010dudovitega mo\u017ea, duhovitega in pametnega mo\u0161kega, izjemnega o\u010deta, kaj nam jim re\u010dem? Re\u010dem jim, da je bil problem v meni. Seveda. Ampak ni. Problem je v tvoji zasvojenosti s pornografijo. To naju je po\u010dasi ubijalo. Toda tega jim ne morem povedati&#8230;Tudi jaz imam rada seks, toda to nima nikakr\u0161ne povezave s tem. Skupaj sva bila pol leta, ko sem odkrila dokaze ta ta tvoj &#8220;hobi&#8221;. Nasmehnila sem se in pomislila &#8220;vsi mo\u0161ki so enaki&#8221;. Toda kmalu sem ugotovila, da je stvar veliko boj resna. Zakaj sem ostala? Ker si bil krasen. O vsem sva se lahko pogovorila, zabavala sva se. Rekla sem si, da seks ni vse in da je \u0161e toliko dobrih stvari v najinem zakonu. Mislila sem, da se bo spremenil&#8230;Vendar nisva ve\u010d imela spolnih odnosov. Nisem ti bila ve\u010d dovolj. Za\u010del si se skrivati in s\u010dasoma tudi meni ni bilo ve\u010d do seksa. Vse se je nehalo. In bilo je te\u017eko. Solze, krivda, lo\u010ditev, otroci, ki ne razumejo, kaj se dogaja&#8230;Sedaj sem v novi zvezi. Seks je dober. Tak, kakr\u0161nega si \u017eelim. Ti si \u0161e vedno sam. Ljudje mislijo, da zato, ker me \u0161e vedno nisi prebolel. Toda jaz vem, zakaj si v resnici sam. Ker ima\u0161 vse, kar\u00a0potrebuje\u0161&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V Guardianu so objavili odprto pismo \u017eenske, ki ga je namenila svojemu nekdanjemu mo\u017eu. 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