{"id":81727,"date":"2016-06-24T05:06:03","date_gmt":"2016-06-24T03:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=81727"},"modified":"2016-07-05T07:25:45","modified_gmt":"2016-07-05T05:25:45","slug":"kako-za-vraga-razumeti-moskega-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kako-za-vraga-razumeti-moskega-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako za vraga razumeti mo\u0161kega?!?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/img-124819036-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/img-124819036-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2012\/03\/img-124819036-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>Foto:Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><strong>V\u017eivite se v njegova \u010dustva<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Za uspe\u0161no \u017eivljenje s partnerjem je klju\u010dnega pomena, da se znate v\u017eiveti v njegova \u010dustva, da razumete, kako \u010duti in kako se odziva na spolnost, da znate gledati na spolne te\u017eave, pa naj so va\u0161i ali njegovi, tudi z njegovega zornega kota. Ker je spolnost zelo intimno in osebno podro\u010dje na\u0161ih \u017eivljenj, smo nagnjeni k temu, da v\u010dasih jemljemo partnerjeva stali\u0161\u010da preve\u010d osebno. \u017denski, katere partner me\u010de o\u010di za zapeljivimi \u017eenskami ali se naslaja ob pornografskih revijah in filmih, se bo zdelo njegovo obna\u0161anje verjetno \u017ealjivo in nesprejemljivo. \u010ce bo tak partner imel recimo kak spolni problem, bo \u017eenska hitro in seveda napa\u010dno ter preve\u010d pav\u0161alno sklepala, da je razlog v tem, da je ne mara in da si je za nastale te\u017eave morda kriva celo sama. Do tak\u0161nih napa\u010dnih zaklju\u010dkov pride predvsem v razmerjih, kjer si \u017eenska ni nikoli vzela \u010dasa, da bi zares razumela svojega mo\u0161kega, se pravi v razmerjih, kjer je med mo\u017eem in \u017eeno stena, zavoljo katere ne komunicirata dovolj dobro in iskreno.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Pogovarjajta se o njegovih spolnih potrebah<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Tak\u0161no pomanjkanje sposobnosti za v\u017eivljanje v \u010dustva drugega je pogosto posledica razli\u010dnih spolnih nazorov med mo\u0161kim in \u017eensko. Ve\u010dina mo\u0161kih si ne more predstavljati uspe\u0161nega seksa brez erekcije in orgazma, medtem ko pomeni \u017eenskam ob\u010dutek intimnosti in ne\u017enosti pogosto prav toliko kot samo ob\u010devanje. Tako mo\u0161ki zlahka dose\u017ee tisto, za kar mu gre pri seksu, ne da bi se recimo pribli\u017eal resni\u010dnim potrebam partnerke. Skoraj vse knjige o spolnosti izpostavljajo in poudarjajo vlogo u\u017eitka pri razvijanju spolnega odnosa in pomen predigre za vzburjanje \u017eenske in njene popolne \u010dustvene zadovoljitve. Toda mo\u0161kim ni zmeraj do tak\u0161nih zadovoljitev. V\u010dasih jim je le do neposrednega, ali \u0161e bolje, do takoj\u0161njega seksa brez uvodov in zavla\u010devanj. Verjetno si tudi \u017eenska kdaj pa kdaj za\u017eeli nekaj podobnega, zato nikar ne podcenjujte tak\u0161ne mo\u0161ke \u017eelje in je ne jemljite kot nekaj slabega, kot idejo o tem, da ga zanima samo va\u0161e telo in da mu ni do dalj\u0161ih in intenzivnej\u0161ih ljubljenj. Ni\u010d ne bo narobe, \u010de mu na trenutke ustre\u017eete in se prepustite hitrem ter divjem seksu.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u017denske prisegajo na monogamijo<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Zaradi tak\u0161nih nazorskih razlik si tudi la\u017ee razlagamo, zakaj je monogamnost \u017eenskam va\u017enej\u0161a kot mo\u0161kim in zakaj naj bi mo\u0161ki te\u017eje ohranjali zvestobo do ene in iste \u017eenske. Ve\u010dina mo\u0161kih si trajnega razmerja s partnerko ne \u017eeli ni\u010d manj kot ona, razlika je le v tem, da znajo la\u017eje lo\u010diti \u010dustvene in telesne potrebe. Da ne komplicirajo in da iz tega ne delajo doktorske disertacije. \u010ce ste tako kot ve\u010dina \u017eensk nagnjeni k temu, da bi iz vsakega, \u0161e tako naklju\u010dnega sre\u010danja ustvarili resno razmerje, vidite tudi v vsakem kontaktu, pri katerem gre samo za seks, mo\u017enost \u010dustvene navezanosti. Tako bo verjetno preprosta avantura, na katero gleda mo\u0161ki samo kot na be\u017een, neobvezen skok \u010dez plot, za vas resna gro\u017enja skupnemu razmerju. To je seveda povsem razumljivo, saj \u017eenske spolnosti in srca ponavadi ne znajo lo\u010diti, mo\u0161kim pa gre prav to ve\u010dkrat odli\u010dno od rok. To seveda ne velja za vse mo\u0161ke, je pa res, da je tak\u0161nih veliko ve\u010d kot \u017eensk, kjer boste zelo te\u017eko na\u0161li tak\u0161no, ki bi se med seksom po\u017evi\u017egala na \u010dustva.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ta \u010dlanek morajo nujno prebrati vse \u017eenske, ki se jim \u0161e vedno zdi, da so mo\u0161ki z drugega planeta!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[1689,1473,1434],"source":[1365,1364,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Kako za vraga razumeti mo\u0161kega?!? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kako-za-vraga-razumeti-moskega-2\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kako za vraga razumeti mo\u0161kega?!? 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