{"id":82193,"date":"2016-07-02T05:01:00","date_gmt":"2016-07-02T03:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/?p=82193"},"modified":"2016-07-11T08:30:00","modified_gmt":"2016-07-11T06:30:00","slug":"si-res-zelis-seksa-ali-samo-intimnosti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/si-res-zelis-seksa-ali-samo-intimnosti\/","title":{"rendered":"Si res \u017eeli\u0161 seksa ali samo intimnosti?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2009\/10\/img-80617116-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2009\/10\/img-80617116-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2009\/10\/img-80617116-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>foto: Thinkstock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Znani psiholog Abraham Maslov je \u010dlove\u0161ke potreberazdelil na 5 osnovnih sklopov. V njegovem trikotniku se potreba po ljubezni in pripadanju nahaja na tretjem mestu, takoj za fiziolo\u0161kimi potrebami in potrebo po varnosti. Seks spada med fiziolo\u0161ke potrebe in za zadovoljitev teh je ponavadi dovolj lasta roka. V seksu, ki vklju\u010duje \u0161e drugo osebo, pa i\u0161\u010demo ve\u010d kot le zadovoljitev telesne potrebe.<\/p>\n<h2>Vsepre\u017eemajo\u010da intimnost ali instantimnost?<\/h2>\n<p>\u010clovek si intimnosti, prave bli\u017eine \u017eeli na ve\u010d nivojih, tako na telesnem, \u010dustvenem, miselnem, socialnem in duhovnem. Trajno ljube\u010de razmerje, kakr\u0161nega si bolj ali manj vsi \u017eelimo, vse te ravni pove\u017ee v harmoni\u010dno celoto. Vendar je to nekaj, \u010desar se ne da dose\u010di \u010dez no\u010d (\u010deprav se v\u010dasih zdi tako), ampak je v doseganje harmonije in prave intimnosti potrebno vlo\u017eiti veliko energije in predvsem \u010dasa.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebo po intimnosti najhitreje zadovoljimo s seksom za eno no\u010d, treba je le par pija\u010d, kratko krilo ali nekaj humorja, pa smo za nekaj minut dele\u017eni bla\u017eenosti intime, kjer se jaz za trenutek razkroji. Instant intimnost nam pusti grenek priokus fast fooda za du\u0161o, in ko jo okusimo, se zavemo, da ne prina\u0161a zadovoljstva, ki smo se ga nadejali.<\/p>\n<h2>Predaj(aj)te se intimnosti in ljubezni<\/h2>\n<p>Veliko ljudi se kljub jasno izra\u017eeni potrebi po intimnosti, ki jo prina\u0161a na ljubezni temelje\u010de trajno razmerje, otepa v strahu, da bi bili (spet) prizadeti. Bojijo se bole\u010dine, ki z navezanostjo nara\u0161\u010da. Na to nekateri odgovarjajo, da ni ljubezni brez bole\u010dine, da pa je zakonska zveza (relativno) varen prostor, kjer lahko izku\u0161amo ljubezen in intimnost. Lahko pa se ne odlo\u010dite ne za bole\u010dino ne za pobeg, temve\u010d za pravo intimnost v predanosti in \u2013 predajo.\u00a0 Z besedami E. Tollea: \u00bb\u010ce pa se prepustite, ne potrebujete raznih egovskih obramb in la\u017enih mask. Tedaj postanete nadvse preprosti, nadvse pristni. &#8216;To je nevarno,&#8217; vas svari ego. &#8216;Prizadet bo\u0161. Postal bo\u0161 ranljiv.&#8217; Ne ve pa seveda, da postanete zares neranljivi \u0161ele takrat, ko se nehate upirati, takrat, ko postanete &#8216;ranljivi&#8217;.\u00ab<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mnogi so, ker ne vedo, kaj v resnici ho\u010dejo in i\u0161\u010dejo, pogosto razo\u010darani&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1092],"tags":[2704,2844,2852],"source":[1365,1364,1334],"supertag":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Si res \u017eeli\u0161 seksa ali samo intimnosti? - Hudo Slovenija<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/si-res-zelis-seksa-ali-samo-intimnosti\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sl_SI\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Si res \u017eeli\u0161 seksa ali samo intimnosti? 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