{"id":8553,"date":"2016-03-24T06:12:00","date_gmt":"2016-03-24T05:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/03\/24\/kaksni-ljudje-nas-v-resnici-privlacijo\/"},"modified":"2016-04-06T06:07:13","modified_gmt":"2016-04-06T04:07:13","slug":"kaksni-ljudje-nas-v-resnici-privlacijo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/seks-partnerstvo\/kaksni-ljudje-nas-v-resnici-privlacijo\/","title":{"rendered":"Kak\u0161ni ljudje nas v resnici privla\u010dijo?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"320\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2010\/09\/img-168766893-320x155.jpg\" data-srcset=\"http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2010\/09\/img-168766893-660x320.jpg 660w,http:\/\/zenska.hudo.com\/files\/2010\/09\/img-168766893-320x155.jpg 330w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\"\/><figcaption>(Thinkstock)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Zavrgli trditev, da se nasprotja privla\u010dijo<\/h2>\n<p>Raziskovalci newyor\u0161ke univerze Cornell so pri\u0161li do zaklju\u010dka, da so v zvezah, ki so okronane s poroko, ljudje, ki so si med seboj zelo podobni. Tako po fizi\u010dnih potezah kot tudi karakterno, kar se izrazito razlikuje od tako imenovanega &#8220;star\u0161evskega nauka&#8221;, ki narekuje, da si ljudje izbirajo partnerje z ravno nasprotnimi lastnostmi, kar naj bi bila zmagovalna kombinacija. V raziskavo so vklju\u010dili 978 heteroseksualnih mo\u0161kih in \u017eensk in pri\u0161li do preprostih zaklju\u010dkov, da se <strong>nasprotja ne privla\u010dijo<\/strong> in da se posameznika z isto lastnostjo veliko bolj privla\u010dita kot z nasprotno. \u010ce je npr. mo\u0161ki bolj tih, ga veliko bolj privla\u010di \u017eenska, ki je prav tako tiha, medtem ko se glasnih in zelo samozavestnih \u017eensk izogibajo.<\/p>\n<h2>Izbiramo si podobne partnerje<\/h2>\n<p>Posamezniki si \u017ee na za\u010detku zveze izberejo tak\u0161nega partnerja, ki jim po podobnosti povsem ustreza. Odkrili so, da so si poro\u010deni pari veliko bolj podobni kot neporo\u010deni, kar vpliva tudi na njihovo vedenje. &#8220;To lahko vidimo na primeru agresije. \u010ce se eden od partnerjev obna\u0161a agresivno, je povsem normalno, da bo tudi drugi partner ta isti vzorec obna\u0161anja prevzel in postal agresiven. Pomembno je, da zelo vplivata eden na drugega, to pa je povezano tudi s tem, kaj ju je pravzaprav prevzelo, da sta skupaj pristala,&#8221; so pojasnili raziskovalci.<\/p>\n<h2>Nasprotja se ne obnesejo<\/h2>\n<p>Raziskovalci trdijo, da tudi \u010de v za\u010detku pride do tega, da se <strong>nasprotja<\/strong> zelo <strong>privla\u010dijo<\/strong>, in si taka partnerja ustvarita zvezo, je veliko mo\u017enosti, da bo zveza razpadla. Po nekaj letih se namre\u010d izka\u017ee, da je poleg ljubezni potrebnega veliko razumevanja in sprejemanja partnerja, ki pa je z <strong>nasprotji<\/strong> ote\u017eeno. Glede na to, da se \u017eelje in pri\u010dakovanja partnerjev razhajajo, se s \u010dasom razhaja tudi njuna skupna pot. Zelo pogost vzrok za lo\u010ditev so namre\u010d velikokrat nepremostljive razlike.<\/p>\n<h2>Izjeme, ki se kljub vsemu privla\u010dijo<\/h2>\n<p>Psihologinja Kate Wachs se z raziskavo newyor\u0161ke univerze ne strinja in trdi, da je, kljub mo\u010dnim in jasnim rezultatom, v prakti\u010dnem \u017eivljenju velikokrat druga\u010de. &#8220;\u010ce ti nek \u010dlovek pove, da ga privla\u010dijo osebe, ki imajo dolo\u010dene lastnosti in atribute, \u0161e ne pomeni, da bi dejansko izbrala partnerja s temi lastnostmi. O sebi in o osebi, s kakr\u0161no ho\u010de\u0161 biti, ima\u0161 lahko dolo\u010deno mnenje, a velikokrat pristane\u0161 s partnerjem, ki nima vseh \u017eeljenih lastnosti.&#8221; Pri podobnosti, da pametno osebo veliko bolj privla\u010di oseba, ki je inteligentna, pa poudarja, da obstaja tudi izjema. Namre\u010d ta, da oseba, ki se ima za lepo in privla\u010dno nikoli ne bo izbrala osebo, ki \u017ee na prvi pogled deluje neprivla\u010dno.<\/p>\n<p>Prav tako poudarja, da se <strong>nasprotja<\/strong> glede vidika osebnosti in vedenja<strong> ne privla\u010dijo<\/strong>, lahko pa se privla\u010dijo z vidika bolj specializiranih pogojev: Z vidika porekla, \u017eivljenjskih izku\u0161enj in rase.<\/p>\n<p>Torej, \u010de vas zanima, kak\u0161na oseba nasprotnega spola vas potencialno privla\u010di, se enostavno poglejte v ogledalo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kak\u0161ni ljudi v resnici pritegnejo na\u0161e zanimanje in vzbudijo v nas strast? 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