{"id":8712,"date":"2017-03-09T08:46:59","date_gmt":"2017-03-09T07:46:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/master.hudo.com\/si\/2016\/03\/08\/resitve-za-4-najpogostejse-probleme-v-partnerskem-odnosu\/"},"modified":"2017-03-14T07:03:00","modified_gmt":"2017-03-14T06:03:00","slug":"resitve-za-4-najpogostejse-probleme-v-partnerskem-odnosu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hudo.com\/si\/lifestyle\/resitve-za-4-najpogostejse-probleme-v-partnerskem-odnosu\/","title":{"rendered":"Re\u0161itve za 4 najpogostej\u0161e probleme v partnerskem odnosu"},"content":{"rendered":"
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V vsakem odnosu so vzponi in tudi padci, ki pa imajo lahko v\u010dasih \u010disto enostavne re\u0161itve. \u010ce si tudi vi belite glavo, kako re\u0161iti problem prazne denarnice ali kako se s partnerjem ali partnerico bolje pogovarjati, potem lahko tukaj najdete nekaj konstruktivnih nasvetov.<\/p>\n

Re\u0161itev za problem s komunikacijo<\/h2>\n

Dobra komunikacija\u00a0\u00a0<\/a>je klju\u010d do uspe\u0161nega razmerja:
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0dandanes je pogosto tako, da zaradi vsakodnevnih obveznosti ne najdemo niti trenutka drug za drugega. Zato izklopite telefon, ugasnite TV, spravite otroke v posteljo in se vsaj za nekaj minut usedita in izmenjajta par besed;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u010de ne zmoreta komunikacije, ne da bi se pri\u010dela dreti in kri\u010dati, se za pogovor dogovorita na kak\u0161nem javnem kraju, na primer v kavarni. Tam bosta morala \u017ee zavoljo drugih ljudi poskrbeti za umirjen in olikan pogovor;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0dolo\u010dita pravila komunikacije, kot na primer, da si ne bosta skakala v besedo, da ne bosta preklinjala in da si v obraz ne bosta metala o\u010ditkov;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0poslu\u0161ajta se! Pomemben del dobre komunikacije je namre\u010d tudi poslu\u0161anje, zato med pogovorom ne glejte na uro ali okrog sebe.<\/p>\n

Re\u0161itev za problem s financami<\/h2>\n

Problemi <\/strong>z denarjem se lahko pri\u010dnejo \u017ee \u010disto na za\u010detku razmerja, sam imata lahko\u00a0 na primer popolnoma razli\u010dne poglede na var\u010devanje in tro\u0161enje denarja, zato je lahko denar in finan\u010dno stanje pogosto jabolko spora med partnerjema. Preberite, kako se temu \u010dim bolj u\u010dinkovito izogniti:
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0bodite iskreni o svojem trenutnem finan\u010dnem stanju. \u010ce ste izgubili vse prihranke, nima smisla, da zavoljo vzdr\u017eevanja dobrega vtisa sku\u0161ate \u017eiveti tako, kot ste \u017eiveli s polno denarnico. V\u010dasih pa\u010d ne gre druga\u010de, kot da zategnete pas;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0zavedajte se, da nimamo vsi istega odnosa do denarja. Morda je eden od vaju izjemno var\u010den, drugi pa takoj zapravi svoj zaslu\u017eek. Zato se bosta za prihodnost vajine zveze morala sre\u010dati nekje na sredini, to pa bosta dosegla le z iskrenim pogovor o vajinih ob\u010dutkih in pri\u010dakovanjih;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0ne skrivajte svojih dolgov in ne la\u017eite o njih. Problem z zadol\u017eenostjo bosta la\u017eje re\u0161ila skupaj;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0za probleme s financami ne krivita in ne obto\u017eujta drug drugega;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 odprita skupen ban\u010dni ra\u010dun, kamor vsak mesec naka\u017eita enak dele\u017e vajinega zaslu\u017eka, ta denar pa porabita za pla\u010devanje ra\u010dunov in nakupovanje hrane;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0finan\u010dno neodvisnost ohranita tako, da dele\u017e mese\u010dnega zaslu\u017eka prihranite oziroma zapravite zase.<\/p>\n

Re\u0161itev za problem s konflikti in prepiranjem<\/h2>\n

Se neprestano prepirata\u00a0<\/a>in se zdi, da se konflikti med vama sploh ne kon\u010dajo? Morda vama bodo pomagali spodnji predlogi:
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0zavedajte se, da sta za prepir vedno potrebna dva (\u010de seveda ne gre za nasilje enega partnerja nad drugim);
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0bodite iskreni in razmislite, ali so med prepirom va\u0161e izjave usmerjene v konstruktivno re\u0161itev ali pa le prilivate olje na ogenj z nesramnimi opazkami in \u017ealjivkami;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0preden planete in se pri\u010dnete prepirati, globoko zajemite sapo in po\u010dakajte, da naval razburjenja mine. Morda boste \u010dez nekaj trenutkov na stvar gledali \u010disto druga\u010de in bo zato tudi va\u0161 odziv bolj miren in manj konflikten;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u010de ste nesramni ali ste v prepiru izrekli nekaj, kar ni bilo na mestu, se opravi\u010dite!<\/p>\n

Re\u0161itev za problem z zaupanjem<\/h2>\n

Zaupanje je temelj uspe\u0161nega razmerja. Ste zaupanje va\u0161ega partnerja ali partnerke \u017ee zapravili? Tako ga lahko spet pridobite:
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0izpolnite obljube;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0ne zamujajte;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0ne la\u017eite, niti o majhnih, navidez nepomembnih stvareh;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0bodite po\u0161teni in ne igrajte umazane igre niti v prepirih;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0upo\u0161tevajte \u010dustva ljudi okrog vas;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0pokli\u010dite, ko ste obljubili, da boste;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0upo\u0161tevajte meje va\u0161ega partnerja ali partnerke;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0ne pogrevajte starih zamer in ne odpirajte starih ran;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0ne bodite ljubosumni;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0nau\u010dite se poslu\u0161ati;
\n–\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0nikoli ne recite besed, ki jih ne morete vzeti nazaj.<\/p>\n

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