“Sporočilo vsem tistim, ki pravijo, da, ker sem debela, si ne zaslužim tako čednega fanta …”

“Sporočilo vsem tistim, ki pravijo, da, ker sem debela, si ne zaslužim tako čednega fanta …”

Predsodki, svet jih je prepoln. Toda vsak od nas lahko pripomore k temu, da jih bo manj!

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Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him.   This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match.   So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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Vsak dan lahko vidimo na stotine sporočil, ki nam posredujejo sporočilo neposredno ali posredno: “Če imaš preveč kilogramov, nisi vredna; skrij svoje nepopolnosti; mozolji, celulit, gube – znebi se tega …” Vse to nas ženske pripelje do tega, da počasi izgubimo realno dojemanje lepote. Pahne nas v negotovost in tesnobo. In s tem se vsakodnevno spopada tudi Jenna Kutcher, ki na družbenih omrežjih več čas dobiva negativne komentarje glede njenega videza.

 

Jenna je 29-letna fotografinja iz Wisconsina, ki je v srečnem zakonu z moškim svojih sanj. In njune skupne fotografije pogosto objavlja na družbenih omrežjih. Toda njeni sledilci se pogosto sprašujejo, kako je mogoče, da je ujela tako seksi moškega, glede na to, da ima kar nekaj odvečnih kilogramov, njen mož Drew pa ima izklesano telo. Številni so mnenja, da si Jenna takega moškega ne zasluži.

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It's almost a sin that I've never done a #mcm, right? (That's "man crush Monday" for all of you wondering!) Three cheers for the hottest husband, @kickingitwithkutch! I remember the day Drew asked my dad for permission to marry me, my dad made him promise that he'd always put up with me (highly valid) and that he would take care of me. Over the last few weeks I've been fragile, hormonal, sad, exhausted, angry, compassionate, humbled, afraid – you name it, it's been me, and here he sits with me in the mess of it all, loving me, supporting me, and being my partner. It's easy to "fill-in-the-blanks" of the stories and photos we see online, to imagine the perfection that we convince ourselves exists in everyone else's lives… But let me tell ya, we're all just walking each other home and I've been walking with the best man, the best fam, and the best tribe ever down an imperfect and windy road and I still wouldn't change it for the world. Double tap if you think supportive partners are THE best, because we all need a little help from our friends.      #kutchersinkihei

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Zato se je Jenna odločila v eni od svojih objav odgovoriti na te sovražne komentarje:

“Nedavno me je nekdo vprašal, kako mi je uspelo ujeti takega lepotca. In moram priznati, da me je vprašanje neprijetno presenetilo. Tudi sama sem se namreč pogosto spraševala, kako ima lahko dekle s kar nekaj odvečnimi kilogrami fanta, ki ima popolne trebušne mišice… Zaradi tega sem se počutila manjvredno in vsakič, ko sem se spomnila, da nisem suha, sem pomislila, da si ga ne zaslužim. Toda on je moški, ki zadnjih deset let sprejema in ljubi vsako mojo oblino, vdolbino, kilogram, centimeter, in me nenehno spominja na to, kako čudovita sem, tudi če sama tega ne verjamem. Sem veliko več kot samo moje telo, prav tako tudi on, in tudi ti. Prava ljubezen ne gleda na velikost. Dekle, čakaj na fanta, ki te bo imel rad. Izberi človeka, ki ti bo vedno v podporo.”

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I want to remind you, whatever you’re going through right now: it’s only a season. I remember being heartbroken the past few years as this day hit the calendar and I woke up next to a man who would make an incredible father someday. I remember feeling guilt, shame, wishing my body had been capable of carrying our two pregnancies to term. ✨ Today, I woke up and @kickingitwithkutch was able to put his hand on my little bump. We were able to dream and actually talk about the baby (something we’ve both been afraid to do) and plan for our future. This baby doesn’t replace the loss we’ve experienced but it does renew our hope! ✨ My heart feels split on days like today because I know the pain all too well – it’s still so fresh, I have to remind myself that I don’t have to sit in it anymore. And yet, here I am, thinking about you: the storms you face, the hardship, the dreams unanswered. So I want to remind you that this is just a season, it too shall pass. Hope is coming. ✨ So whether you’re celebrating the men in your life, hoping for the right man to come along, grieving a father in heaven, or a relationship that never existed, or a baby that you’re waiting for, I want you to know that I see you and my heart is going out to you tonight. I can’t wait to see your next season unfold. Photo by: @whitleymcdonald

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