Negotovost se lahko pojavi tudi v najbolj trdnih zvezah. Kako pa se rešiti temačnega suma in kdaj zaupati svojemu občutku? Večina od nas je namreč prepričana, da bi seveda takoj vedeli, če bi nas partner varal, a v resnici so lahko znaki, a to res počne, precej manj očitni kot pa si mislite.

Zato je nekdanja eskort spremljevalka in britanska novinarka, ki živi v Avstraliji, 46-letna Samantha X, razkrila nekaj subtilnih znakov, ki bi lahko pričali o tem, da vas partner vara. Samantha X, katere pravo ime je Amanda Goff, je za nek avstralski podcast povedala, da bi bil eden od takih znakov, za katerega vedo le redki, to, da moški pride domov z mokrimi lasmi, kar pomeni, da se je stuširal nekje drugje.

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I haven’t posted in a while because I felt I had nothing interesting to say, nothing to talk about, I felt ugly, dumb and down. And to make it even worse, I couldn’t have a drink to escape those horrible feelings. So I waited…did some exercise, spoke to some good friends and did a check list of the things I’m grateful for, and the fog lifted. If you’re having a down few days, it passes. Surrender to it, do a little self care and self love and the sun finally shines again #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #anxiety #depressionhelp #sobriety #sober #recovery

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Dodala je še, da če partneji varajo, ne bodo nehali varati niti v času karantene. Tako tudi v času omejevanja svobode, ki so veljala tekom pandemije koronavirusa, afere še naprej trajajo. Moški bodo že nekako našli način, kako to nadaljevati. Tudi ne glede na to, kako zelo so zaposleni, vedno že nekako najdejo način, je po pisanju Daily Maila povedala Samantha. Moški bodo vedno našli način, pa tudi če vse skupaj traja le 10 minut.

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If everyone else is posting bikini pictures then why jolly well can’t I! I’ve worked hard on my body this year thanks to @graceecarr and @beachfitbondi and at 45, I’m fitter and more in shape now than I was at 25. I go to gym most days now for my mental and physical health, no longer cancel due to being hungover which I did regularly. Look out 2020!!! #healthylifestyle #fitafter40 #sober #recovery

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Svetovala je tudi, da ste tudi med pogovorom s partnerjem pozorni na prikrite znake, ki bi lahko kazali na njegovo nezvestobo. Če bo vedno poudajal, kako on nikoli ne bi varal, kako zelo je proti varanju, je to sumljivo. Če kar naenkrat postane tak svetnik in začne govoriti vse najslabše o varanju, je to lahko zelo dober znak, da prav sam v resnici to počne.

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Thanks for the memory Instagram. The dogs have since chewed those glasses, I still wear that top from @kookai_australia – although I wear a singlet underneath it now to cover my boobs – but I still know that lying down and taking a selfie is the best position to make yourself look younger thanks to gravity.. ‍‍ #memories #mammories

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I swear there are female accountants out there whose Insta photos are way more naked and racier than mine. #mybodymychoice #notnaked #classnotarse

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